Tuesday, August 22, 2006
Click here for da Aug 20 entry.
And so, aft tat heated argument.. me and B werent on good terms for almost a week. Yup, almost a week..
Even though, we did lunch out or in together.. we didnt talk.. PW and J suspected something.. When we c each other in office, we didnt even smile, talk or look at each other. All we did was >> SMS..
Me: U didnt talk to me during lunch, have a guilty conscience?
He: No. If u want to noe wat it is like to be irritated, I had shown u..
Wat he meant was, like I'd mentioned.. we didnt talk to each other at all coz we were not in good terms.. I was depressed by his hurtful joke and he was upset with me for taking da joke too seriously..
Hence, he treated tat as being irritated and he had told me b4 tat when pple irritate him, I wont c da B I had always knwn.. I wld c da other side of B.. But I didnt knw how was his other side.. He had shown to me tat day.. Tat day was Tuesday, 15 August 2006.
Me: Oh, ic.. Ok..Thanks for showing to me..
He: U can try to explore this side of me more if u wan to..
Me: Sure, da same goes to u too..
No exchanging of smses throughout da day. . . . . At nite, I went online. He didnt.. J was online.. So I chatted with her instead. She knew abt me and B not talking to each other on Tuesday..
J: so u both not yet in good terms..
Me: I alrdy cooled off, dun knw abt him..
J: He told me u kinda petty.. He was only joking..
Me: JOKING!!! Telling me tat I have low IQ juz becoz I lose to him in any games we played is not a joke? I knw he has a very high IQ, but dun say until like tat lah >> Low IQ, it as if I am really 'retarded'!! Isnt tat insulting?!!
Me: I used to play games like bowling and pool and computer games too.. I am not going to say tat I am pretty good in it.. Juz tat at least I knw how to play da games..
J: ic
Me: Juz becoz for almost 3 years, I didnt even play any pool (no friends wanna play with me as they had their own busy schedules), and when i get to play it again aft 3 years, my standard has dropped but it doest mean tat I CANT PLAY!!!
Me: So, y muz say hurting things like - LOW I.Q?!!
J: ok
On Wednesday, we decided not to lunch in together. Fine.. I go sumwhere alone and he went sumwhere alone.. However, we still sms.. I guess we were so called in good terms only when we didnt face each other.. As it was Wed, he didnt escort me to sch.. C'mon who wld want to? We had 'irritate' each other..
Wed nite, as usual we MSN. I didnt said "Hi" to him on MSN like I always do.. I waited till he sent a "Hi" to me.. which he did.. So, we chat as per normal.. But i can sense tat he is now being very careful with wat he was typing.. Heh.. Hmm..maybe coz he was afraid to offend me?
I asked him, how was work and lunch.. He gave a mundane reply such as, "OK lor". On Wed, we didnt sms each other.. So, i asked him how he felt.. A chafe reply frm him, "Fine lor." *eyes rolling*
In da MSN, he told me tat his ACCA results will be out on Aug 21. I wished him all da best.. (Yup, it was yestday.. He failed one paper.. He needs another 6 pts to pass!!! But he is still OK with it.. I guess da other 2 papers, he passed with very high marks.. - u muz be wondering how come I can get to knw his results? Well, I asked him personally. Will tell u more..)
Thurs, both of us had cooled off coz when we met at work, we had to force ourselves to smile at each other and tat smile wasnt a deliberate smile.. It IS a sincere smile frm me to him, I wasnt sure abt him though..
However, we didnt lunch in or out together.. He had informed me tat he was busy with his work, need to finish sum datelines.. Hey, no prob.. So I lunch in alone .. at my desk.. and exchange smses as usual..
Thur nite, we MSN but not as fun as b4.. Sigh.. Not my fault.. He started it first.. He shld be more tactful.. be it verbally or orally..
Fri... we decided to lunch in together.. I smsed him, "2day I accompany J lunch in. u can join us if u want." And he did joined us.. However, he was only talking to J all along.. Since they are more conversable in mandarin, tats da language they talk to each other and since I am taking Basic Adult Conversational Mandarin, I tend to eavesdrop at their conversation coz sum of da words they speak, I kinda learnt it in my course.. Hmm.. their conversation made me suspicious..
Sat, we did talk.. and as usual joke and like I'd mentioned b4.. he tends to be more tactful with his words.
On Mon, we did chat like I'd stated above.. Abt his results and he will be registering for his new semester end of tis week and he delibarately aggravate me by saying, "Cant escort u anymore.. My course starts alrdy.." I was like, I didnt ask him to escort me every day or everytime I had classes!!! Y muz he say tat?!!
B4 I end, I did mentioned tat J and B's conversation made me suspicious, didnt I? So, tis entry shall be continued aft I have done with some investigation.. Yes, I shall be my own P.I to spy on them.. Ehehe.. Dun worry.. they wont knw... I am quite gd at tis.. *winkz*
