I told him I can't marry him coz
1) he's a foreigner - he came from a country which my family is very suspicious about (always have bad news abt them involving crimes!) - but he has been working here for 13 years, has been working in the same company as me for 2 and half years already..
2) he's married with 2 kids (been married for 9 years - arranged marriage)
3) I am not ready yet (I have my reasons)
4) I don't know him that well (I just started working there on 1st March!)
5) Since he is married, for sure my family will definitely object! (CONFIRM NYER!)
6) Maybe he is not sincere. (just to satisfy his lust? I dun knw)
I think I have to perform istikharah prayers to seek guidance from Allah. I will leave it to Allah. If Allah shows to me that he is the one that I have to give him a chance and make the courage to tell my family about it. If Allah says he is not the one, how to stay a distance from him? Resign from there? Mana boleh! Sighz..
P/S: My sis knows that he is married... and she might let it out to my granny.. How does my sis know? Well, she likes to play games on my iPhone and furthermore, my subscription is a student plan and I use her name so by right I have no choice but to let her use my iPhone to play games so she may have read those messages in my iPhone. DuhZ!
NB: He too, has shown me his family photo...
