Tuesday, August 18, 2009
Dear Bloggers / Readers / Friends,
Thank you for being an avid reader of my humble blog. I understand that sometimes, ikutkan perasaan, I may just anyhow rant abt whoever and whatever in my blog. Some of the facts are real, some are not.
Please do not get me wrong. I am not saying that I like to say false things. Someone else said it to me and me being a person who believe with one-sided story believe it and out came the report in my blog.
Although this matter was 2 years ago, the person concerned called me up to clear the air. Not to worry, the person concerned is not angry but just unhappy that the false words I wrote abt her came from me.
Furthermore, the person concerned knows from WHOM I hear it from. The person concerned knows and her instincts is right when I told her. I know a few of u will be wondering whether I will be in big trouble later... I am not sure... U see, if the person concerned confront the someone who told me all that, the someone can deny it right? It's human nature.. Pple talks abt others and when others find out, confront them, they will deny it. Very common in human beings...
Besides, the matter was a 2007 matter, the someone perhaps had forgotten abt it, I guess...
Ok, to cut long story short...
Remember this link: http://puteri-maria.blogspot.com/2007/05/mc-is-da-best-policy.html ?
The person concerned called me to clarify with me. She did not blame me for all this for she knows that I am letting it all out when someone said things abt my family members. It's normal. Everyone will get angry when people talks abt their family. However, I must get facts right before posting it up.
P/S: Before I continue, I wanna stop this habit of mine for being angry unneccessarily. Because anger and evil are the best friends of Syaitan. I must fight these two thoughts and istigfar pd Allah.
The person concerned did not ever say my mum is stupid etc etc because she herself has a mother. Why I post it up then? Like I've mentioned, I heard it from someone. That someone may not like the person concerned or has a habit of telling lie so that someone told me and me being a person who thinks that older pple are always right, believe it.
So to all, if you have read the above entry 2 years ago... this is the TRUTH - She did not say those things abt my mum... The actual fact is she is segan dengan my mum coz she was loud, coloured her hair and smoked so thats why she feels uncomfortable if my mother is around. However, she did not say those things.. Hmm... maybe that someone spite me to make me hate her so she said that she's the one saying my mum is blah blah blah blah...
One final things to say... Sorry. Sorry for writing it in blog which is not true. Thanks for saying it is not my fault. This kind of habit of mine I have to change it.. From now on, I will not listen to one side of story anymore.. I have to listen to both and with my own judgment, I will decide who is right.
// I have gotten into trouble regarding these similar things before, so I do NOT want anymore trouble, from now on I'll be extra careful.. //
Once again sorry and thanks for clarifying it with me.
