Saturday, July 18, 2009
I have removed FMA from my facebook contact list and had blocked her from viewing / accessing my profile. I do not need to tell her why I do so. I believe she should know obviously the reason. Too bad that though, I have removed her from my hp contact list, we will still bound to meet every Mon to Fri, 8.30am to 5.45pm. coz we are working in the same company. It is my fault for recommending her to work with me at the same company. Ever since she came, she keeps telling me that this person said abt me, this person dun like me.. She is doing that in order to get attention and also she is trying to make me hate that person! In order to support her incredible lie, she used other pple's names. Since she mention names, I can just go over and clarify with the names mentioned. I did. And one of them send her a text messages and she knows that her true colours will soon be exposed and she can't hide anymore. She always go to DCJ and said that her superior told her that I am so childish and immature for writing whatever comments in FaceBook. I doubt her superior is the type of person FMA claims her to be. FMA keeps mentioning her superior's name to support her story until I can't take it anymore, I will wait till FMA has gone back home and I approach her superior for clarification. Her superior was shocked. It tells me something. FMA is telling a lie. When she herself bad mouth abt me and my mum, I decided thats the last straw! Why she bad mouth my mum? Well, I treat her like a friend. I trusted her to repair my laptop with low cost. She told me that my laptop can't be repaired and I would like to have it back, she demand me to pay her. She will not return my laptop back unless I paid her. She called my house and speak to my mum and demand $300-$400 payment in exchange for the laptop! What is this? (She asked her fiance to call home since she is a hearing-impaired). I have shoot her an email telling her that I will talk to her until she apologizes and promised not to do it again. She did apologize but she is smart! She apologize to me when only 3 of us are around (myself, herself and one more colleague who does not know abt this). She did not apologize to me in the presence of BYL, DCJ, JKC and the rest of the hearing-impaired staff. She even promised me that she never do it again. I trusted her. But she still continues.. Recently, she came over to me and asked me if me and A has broken up. I tell her NO. She did not believe me and assured me further and again I told her NO. She nodded her head, understood. But 5 mins later, she went over to DCJ and tell him this, "MBS and her bf has broken up, my superior told me that MBS is immature and childish for writing comments in FaceBook." HELLO! What comments? I did not write any comments.. Even if I did, why she bother? And I remembered her superior had not arrived to office yet, so how could she have told FMA that? FMA has betrayed my trust in her friendship! Yes, I can forgive her coz Allah is Forgiving but I do not want more trouble and problems from her so I removed her from my facebook list. I believe that she will still spread lies abt me to some of the other pple in the company (because the email I shoot at her was only cc to a few pple) so before she does so, I am announcing it here because I do not wish to be misjudge. It is ok to lose a friend like her. I treat her as friend knowing that she does not have frends. But what did she do to me? Backstab me! Now I understand why she has no friends. Because of what she did. I have enough. 3 times. She did it to me 3 times. First time, she tried to get me into trouble with the company. She ever told to the hearing-impaired staffs that I heard from the BOD's opening speech during Chinese New Year Dinner that the company will be having some trips next year. Come to think of it, if this untrue news spread around, I will get the blame! Second time, when she can't get any payment from me for my laptop, she demanded payment from my mum. When she can't get the payment, she told DCJ this, "MBS mum always control MBS finances, thats why MBS always has to borrow $$ from me and always pay me in instalment of $2." W.T.F!!! To summarize it all, I believe FMA is a revengeful type of person. She may seek revenge. So I am going to defend myself here and u people are the witness. I recommend her to work same company as I am so I should be responsible for her misbehaviour. If she dares to create trouble again, I will have to let the management know about this and put a stop to it. ================================================================== Like I've mentioned, she is a revengeful person.... Tell u more later... For now, this continues.... I have cut ties with her. That means I did not wish to talk to her or have anything to do with her and definitely there will be a few pple bound to notice us and instead of approaching me, will approach her and of course she wanna save face, will push the blame on me and a few may believe her. So, the reason is pretty simple - I want her to stop nonsense so that I can have peace at work / clear my name. Very frequently she will bother me at workstation (before going to the ladies or pantry) asking for TODAY or MY PAPER from me. That's fine. However, she will ask abt how's my life. Sometimes I answer, sometimes I dun answer and sometimes I just answer, "My life pretty good, OK.." She went on further asked abt my work because she noticed that I have a lot of work (and she has went to few pple in the office saying that I am slow in my work.. duhz - kalau aku slow in my work da lama la kena tendang!) on my desk. I did not want her to probe further so I just ans, "later can talk again... busy need to finish this urgently..." She does not seem happy. She wants exact answer. Soon, she walked off. Sometimes too, before lunch, she will come over and asked me with whom and where to for lunch. I said I dun know. She seems pretty excited when I answered her I dun know so that she can ask me to accompany her. But well, I have my own lunch kakis... So sorry... This has been going on everyday. Sometimes, she ever tell me that she does not like this person and that person. So? Why must she tells me? She expect me to be on her side not to like the person as well! Look, I am here in this world to make friends and not being enemies. Sighz.. So when I ignore her "plight", she starts her nonsense...she involves names of the person in the company to support her lie. U tell me, if u were in my position... will u have peace? Will u have concentration on ur work? Whenever she came to my desk talked abt this person and that person has a dislike on me, I find that her words unsettled me and gives me more pressure! Its not the work that pressurize me, its her! Thus I can't concentrate on my work. She has tried to create friction against me and a few other colleagues... She used their names to support her lie in order for me to hate them! I did not go to the names mentioned as I do not wish to pursue the matter but recently I did coz this person's name's has been mentioned a few times by her. And .....Its no use to mention abt this again. Anyway, before I end this... I admit that this kinda of thing may jeopardize our rice bowl but I am just clearing my name. Before she says different story (when anyone approach her asking why we're not talking anymore), I will put it up here and explain the whole story (in summarY). Last but not least, have to say it in my own language with a mixture of English, "DIA LEBIH CEPAT DARI KU... AKU CUMA GERTAK AJER SEKIRANYA DIA BUAT LAGI, AKU AKAN REPORT DIA... and wanna know what happens next? DIA YG REPORT AKU! She didnt appreciate my recommendation... She nak jeopardize periuk nasi ku! Why pple like her exist ah? P/S: I have been observing her, I guess she knows abt this so she try to win back trust by chatting and getting their attention. Well, its OK but just a piece of reminder. Never buy her story if she were to say this person or that person said u are fat la, ugly la, useless and stupid uni grad la etc etc.. and never share personal life with her, that is even more dangerous. ================================================================ True enough, management and one of the directors called me in 2 different days. They both asked for what happen. I apologized that this has been known to them, and I will make sure it won't happen again. Do I get kick out? Well, the case is close. Not that serious. Even if it is serious, both of us (FMA & me) has to be terminated, to be fair. So since they rest this case, I am still working. Phew. On Friday, sources told me that the perpetrator has approached certain pple and express her disappointment. She told (as in write in piece of paper) a few colleagues that I was being called to see the GM and one of the directors and why am I still here?! WHAT?!! HELLO!! So, her intention of reporting to the management before I do is to get me sack?! Does she know that if I am being sack, she has to be sacked too... GM told the same thing to her as well! So she must say thanks to the GM for not sacking me else, she will be sack too! Told u, she is a revengeful person!
