Friday, March 20, 2009
My grandmother always has false assumption of A. She kept saying that A is younger than me la, A did not want girls younger than him because he can't get their money; thats why A sticks to me, who is older so that he can ask for money. *eyes rolling*
She advises me to stop entertaining him and look guys who are older than me. She thinks I did not look for men older than me?! I did but no chemistry between us and some dun think I can be the one because I was still immature in their eyes.. So how to get guys who are older than me to be attracted to me?
Every time she has false assumption of A and so like what I have promised to myself, I will one day reveal to her that I met some older guys before and they themselves go after woman who are younger or (whatever la ), going after their money.
Yes, I have revealed to her about R. R who I met through Myspace.com since 2003? Think so. I avoided him after he broke his promise. He borrowed $$ from me and after he has paid me back the loan, he has promised not to borrow money from me again, should he wants to be my friend. He broke his promise, since then, I no longer contacted him. I still have his no but I did not make it a point to sms him a "hi" or "how are u." What abt him? Well, he is the one who occasionally does that (the smsing) but after the normal "hi" and "how are u" smses, he will sms his intention: borrow $$. Reason for loan: motorbike parking fine la, motorbike insurance la etc etc...
Told everything to my grandma. She was very shocked! Furthermore, I also assured her that though A is younger than me, he NEVER BORROW $$ from me. She then kept quiet, no comments from her.
I did not tell her that A ask for transport bus fare, she will make noise. FYI, A asked me for transport $$, I believe it is still alright and acceptable because transport bus fare is coins worth of abt $2.. In addition, he didn't always ask.. Only when he was short of bus fare $$, he'll ask from me.
However R is different. He asked for 3 fig amount! If his reason is for his mum's medication, I will not mind to lend my $$. His reasons was always - motorbike parking fine, motorbike lamp spoil, insurance for motorbike etc etc...
The way I justified abt R really has convinced my grandmother. She always wants me to find men who are older than me, so when I told her about R, somehow her perception on men who are older than me (aged 27 and above la) has slightly changed.
I told her that R first borrowed my $$ when I was still in school (back in 2004). He has promised not to borrow again but he still did because well, in my opinion.. I am now working and earned 'big bucks' as a secretary in a law firm. So, he asked $$ from me again.
After sharing with her abt R, my grandmother all of a sudden exclaimed.. "U better stay away from those kind of guys.. Tak sangka umur 33 / 34 perangai mcm tu. Patutlah not married yet.. how to if dun know how to finance properly and even if dun know how to finance $$ properly dun ask $$ from lady la! No shame.. Lucky u are just friends with him, if in relationship with him, u will suffer.."
Ah.. Tau pun.. Then still bising bising.. Want me find older men.. Younger men cannot la.. Younge men like this la like that la.. See la.. always assume here.. assume there.. Kan the cucu da keluarkan taring, da reveal semua.. Hahaha..
Nasib tak relate to her abt me meeting some other older guys who did not ask for money BUT ask for sex... If I share this with her, I guess my grandmother will pengsan!
