Thursday, March 05, 2009
This is in regards to the previous heaty comments I posted in facebook last week. I hear more untrue stories about me. What I mean is, the person reads the comments and want to defend herself.
I wanted to defend myself too in facebook after hearing those untrue stories BUT I decided not to coz my ustaz is in facebook; he may get a shocked. Well, as a Muslim, we shouldnt be fighting in public so I go to this blog of mine to pour it out. I dun think she knows abt this blog.
This is what I wana write (under the comments - which is going to be very long) in facebook if the ustaz is not in my list, I am referring to her:
- U tell them that my mother control my finances that's why I always borrow $$ from u?! Sighz.. Small matter... u make it big, how I wish I can make it BIGGER in facebook, but its OK.. I let it out everything here.
- U tell them that I recommend u to work same company so that I can borrow $$ from you?!! And I paid instalments of $2 every time?!!! How I wish I can voice this out in facebook, I dun want pple in facebook to wrongly judge me.
I fear ALLAH and for ALLAH I am telling the truth.
The truth is:-
1. Before I recommend her to work in the same company, yes, I did borrow from her $50. I did not know how to finance myself at that time so once I become broke, I did not know what to do. I don't know why borrowing came to my mind. I did approach my other friends if they can spare me only $50, as I believe thats the amount that can last me till next pay day. Those friends can't spare me; they had their reasons. She's the one who is able to spare me, furthermore she asked if $50 is enuff for me. I have settled the debt looonnnngggg time agoooo....
2. I badly wants a digital camera after my Sony camera is spoilt - thanks to my sister. I need it badly as I wanna take lots of photos while in Chiang Mai, Thailand. I did have $100++ but I know its not enuff. We were just surveying for digital cameras when I spotted a good one and tell the shop owner, I will come back again. She's the one who offered to pay for me. I didn't ask her to pay for me. I said to her that I will think about it and I will get the same one next month (after I saved enuff $$). However, she insisted saying the discount is a good deal (the shop owner knows her, hence I got a discount) so I must grab it. So she is the one who is offering to pay for me. I didn't even beg her. Anyway, I would like to express my thanks and already settle the payment.
3. I have shortage of $50 for rental of graduation gown. I went to her coz the deadline was on that day and if I go to other friends, they may delay the transfer, I need to pay the rental by that day. So I went to her. I would like to convery my thanks to her for the $50 else without it, I can't attend the graduation (though I had paid for the graduation ceremony, if I can't pay for the rental, I can't attend and $$ I paid for ceremony will be burn just like that). I also have settled the payment.
4. My bank account has insufficient funds to deduct for California fitness. The fee is $81.32 (inclusive of GST) and I only have $30++ in there. I only asked her for additional $50 coz that will be sufficient enuff to be deducted. She offered $60, though I want only $50, she insisted me to agree on $60. Fine! I also have settle the $60 in full.
5. NYB's birthday contribution. I have informed the person-in-charge that I will give them the $$ later. She came to me and asked if I have contributed. I told her the truth. She added that she will pay for me first, then I'll pay her back. I can't stop her. When she insist, very hard to stop her.
6. Laptop. I gave her my laptop for her to take a look at it. I have no idea if she repaired it or not but I got a shocked when she told me that I have to pay her $80 for her service charge. That $80 is so coincidental to my increment. I didn't say Ok, I just kept quiet. I have no idea what came to my mind and I asked her about my laptop. She threaten me saying if I want the laptop, I must pay. When I refuse to pay (because she treat my laptop - a gift from my grandmother - as a joke! She mentioned she gave my laptop to old rag man! Does she think its funny?!!!), she CALLED MY HOUSE AND DEMAND PAYMENT FROM MY MOTHER!! That's the last straw! Thats why I wrote those long-winded comments last week! Involve my family member, thats it! Anyway, when she called my house (she's hearing-impaired, how can she call? She can get her hearing friends who so into her, who is so believing in her story to call or she can ask her fiance who loves her very much to call my hse) and demand $300-$400 from my mum, my mum texted me. Thats it!
7. I got someone to settle the matter. Since she get someone to call my hse and demand payment, I also can get someone to handle the matter. Instead of $300-$400, payment reduces to $35. So I had smsed her that on Monday (2 Mar 2009), I'll pay her $35+$5 = $40.
8. I paid her after lunch as the gym membership and other stuffs still not deducted yet in the morning on that day. After lunch, only that other stuffs has been deducted from my account, not my gym but I will still withdraw my $$ anyway because before lunch, she has been going around to only certain pple (what a coward! I announced it in facebook for everyone to read, she only defend herself to a few pple, coward isnt she?) that I cannot pay her $40 on that day, I can pay her other day. That's why when I went to her to pay the $40, I brought 2 witnesses along. She seemed shocked. Serves her right! She told two of them I always paid her instalment of $2 so when I paid her full amount of $40 in front of 2 witnesses, of coz she did not know what to say but the two of them kept advising me to watch out for any of her attack.
Which is true, she has got my house number from the company's intranet. I am not stupid. I am not afraid. According to another colleague of mine, if she creates trouble by calling my home, I can complain to the management because the management was the one who keyed in my house number (including most of the colleagues) in intranet, so its their responsibility.
Those 9 points are what I wanted to highlight in facebook. Those 9 points are good enuff to defend me in facebook but let it be. Its useless. We can't punish her. She always think she is right and she likes the attention she is getting when she spin stories so let her be. Only ALLAH S.W.T will punish her.
