Friday, January 16, 2009
Hi MBS
Can u tell me wat BOD opening speech last Wed at CNY dinner?
My reply:
Alamak! I came in late.. U noticed right? So, I didnt really hear.. sorry...
The next day, the same person sent me email:
Hi Maria,
Please keep this a secret, promise me. I cant disclose the names but I tell u something. Some of our colleagues heard rumour saying that u heard at the CNY opening speech, this co will organise trip to Korea / Australia next year. A few of them know u were sitted at same table as me, hence came to me and confirm abt it. I recalled that u came late and therefore missed the speech. I told them it is not true coz I witness u came late. I asked them from whom they heard the rumour from. I know it instantly they heard it from her. She told me different story. She told me that her supervisor told her that this co will organise trip to Korea / Japan next year. I dun understand why she told different story. I have promise this to myself, the next time she mentions the name of so and so telling her of etc etc, u need to verify with them if she said the true story. If they got confused and said no, u know already she is fond of telling lie and create different story. Many of my friends warned me she create friction among many pple, causing them to hurt each other.
Dun be naive to believe her story. I told u again and again, u must stand firm. Dun buy her story. Dun worry, shld the BOD approach u and 'accuse' u on why u have been spreading the opening speech trip announcement, me and ALS will stood by u.. We saw u coming in late and we knw u and 2 others also came in late, u can even ask them to stand by u.. as witness..
My reply:
WHAT?!! When did I say that?! Hey! This is already serious! She is sabotaging my ricebowl! She is wants me to get into trouble! She mention I tell her that I heard BOD's opening speech?!! If its not true, BOD come to me! Anyway, since I was late and she mention opening speech is abt trip announcement, then did u see the whole lot of them clapped and yelled a hooray if the trip is being announced? No, isnt it? Therefore, I dun think there is any mention of trip in the opening speech! Sighz
Back home, I wrote at my facebook status: I was late for the dinner therefore missed the speech.. I kept repeating the same status again and again coz SHE is in my facebook and I WANT her to know that I am aware of the rumour and I'm doing this to protect myself.
The next week, I sent email:
I dont have access to the internet, so can I go to ur plc and use ur PC for a while? Last nite, I kept brooding over this that I resort to post it at my status and even commented on it. Well, if u are noticeable enuff, u shld know there are a lot of colleagues in my facebook.. before they heard that ridiculous opening speech tale, I must defend myself. Furthermore, 1 of the directors is also in my facebook.. Hence, thats the only way (putting it at my status and commented on it) to attract attention and know that I am being FRAMED! So, I would now like to delete the comments before she reads it and ask me questions later, which I dun know how to ans.. she sure will ask but preten she didnt spread the rumour..
Sighz.. This is serious matter.. She likes to bully me sometimes but this is NOT bullying.. This is sabotaging my ricebowl. And whats this? She also mention her supervisor's name? Whats her story with her? Why does she want to get her into trouble! For God sake, she is her superior.. Just look at the rank - Administrative Officer, is she crazy?!
Thats why I also uploaded the CNY photos in my facebook to proof that I was late. I went up to 37th floor to get a colleague to apply make up on me, that why we were late so I have no idea what was the speech abt!
Reply:
Dont worry, I understand, I will defend u and speak truth for u in case anything happens. Luckily ALS and I know u came late and what she said already tells me that she is telling different story.. I have to beware of her.. U too.. I think its time now to have showdown with her.. We have to clarify matters with her. We want her to stop creating friction and false truth. I dun want hear this and that..
When my superior came to me asking abt my facebook comments, I related to her. She was seated at the same table with one of the directors and she told me there was no opening speech, just a speech.. Here's the email:
I am saved. No one will buy her story. I told u yestday that I wrote my status and even comment on it? Then I go to ur workstation to delete it off.. I guess its too late coz she had read it at home (coz she was on leave yestdaY) and today she asked me abt ut. I told her. She knew it instantly who started the rumour and tell me to ignore. She was there at the dinner too and she told me there wasnt any opening speech, just a speech, why exaggerate and said, 'opening' speech? I also inform her that I am kinda worried if BOD came to me regarding this. Both of them told me to be firm and point fingers.
Phew! I am relieved. See, it does help putting it at my status so that pple here can know that the rumours are all nonsense!
Final reply:
So, she know she start the rumour? I need to check with u.. she always told me that u did not get along well with them and they sabotaged u few times. Is it true? U can share with them abt it, so that the whole co know she is a great liar.. U are saved and I'm happy for u.. U can work in peace..
TBC ... I heard more rumours... sighz.. why is she like that? Like to create friction against one another? In malay means, batu api..
