Sunday, December 28, 2008
Babe,
How has it been going for you now? Hope everything went well.
A few colleagues and friends of mine tell me that ur bro is not suitable for me. Well, they saw our photos and he most of the time fetches me home so some of them has seen him before too. They gave a feedback that he's not suited for me. From the way he looks, they "can tell" that he's bad and not meant for me who is the innocent type. They "can tell" that 1 day he's gonna control me. They suggest me to leave ur bro, there are better men out there. I really dont know.
Sorry to ask u this but he's racist? I dont hate certain race. I am natural. Even if ur bro wants to go out of Singapore or any other countries...will still have that particular race he hates, so he cant run away from that race. He even dared tells me that I am lucky that I am not in that race else, he dont even want me. Really? Ok.. I want to change my NRIC and change my race to that particular race he hates and see how he'll react.
Sometimes we quarrel just because of the race issue. Whenever he saw that particular race walked pass us or walked in front of us or walked behind us and talking very fast and loud.. He looked unhappy and uttered a "bodoh". I got a shocked. I reasoned out with him that in school.. the malays are always at the bottom position. The top positions always goes to other races so why he calls them "bodoh" just because he hates that race? So I hope u can talk to ur bro but please make it sounds as a big sister advising the small brother. Dont say out my name - he will scold me if he knows I've been complaining and u know how ur bro is when he scolds pple right?
So, thats all for now. Take care over there..
Miss u babe,
Maria
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Hey babe,
My bro is still young. Sometimes he doesn't know what he's talking about. You know nothing about him yet. You can talk to my dad anytime, and he will tell you. My bro is not a bad guy like your friends said. He's a good person, but he has a mentality of a small kid, though he denies it.
I don't blame him. It's his fate, but I'm trying to do my best here, especially in my career. I want to bring him to Australia to further his studies, and make him familiarised with the real world.
He was striked with an extremely high fever when he was a kid. I think it affected his brain in some ways. He could be 22 years now, but he has a mentality of someone who is 14.
I reckon that you give him sometime till he starts to realize that he is dealing with his real age. You can talk to my dad. He will not leak out your conversation to my bro. You can trust him.
For my bro, as I've told you, he is not a bad guy at all. Your friends don't know him at all.
Don't worry. My bro doesn't even know what he's talking about.
Call my dad, he will give you a lending ear. He's the best person for you to confide your feelings, since I'm not in a position to call you now. I reckon my dad because he is liberal and open minded in discussion.
That's all I have to say now. I apologise for the complications you're facing now. My bro is not doing things intentionally.
Ainu
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Err, talk to ur dad? but how?
Yes, ur bro did told me before that u're planning to bring him to Australia. But he didnt want to go coz he didnt want to leave me. He will go if I come along! How to?! MY granny will sure objects! Guess ur bro is not matured as what he claims to be and I admit that I am immature still. Ur bro said that too.
So coincidental. I was striked with a high fever before and the whole family including next door neighbours rushed me to the hospital and I was hospitalized for a few weeks. So it may affect my brain too - coz I am still immature in some ways.
No wonder we always have some frictions. Both our brains are still like a kid with one diffrence - Level of qualifications. But I never ever looked down on him. I know he can improve himself. It will takes time - if he has the patience.
Sorry for telling u the complications. I will try to talk to ur dad - ur bro will always use the phone to call me till late night before I go to sleep so how to have the time to talk to ur dad?
Rgds,
Maria
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It's fine with my dad. Yes, I remember u told me u were strike with a high fever when u were 18 mths old?
My bro has a different case. He was only 10 or 11 years old when he was down with a high fever and the doctor found that there was a spider web in his ear when he had the high fever.
He was a smart kid, but after the high fever, he just couldn't do things right. He couldn't even concentrate with his studies.
He simply can't register anything. That is the reason why he is not not doing well in his studies. It is not because he is lazy and stupid, it's because he can't afford to do it.
Just talk to my dad, and he will help you out. I will give him a miss call now to inform him.
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Such coincidence.. I had a high fever, he too had a high fever.. His age is big but think like a small boy.. Same as me! Nyahahaha... At least I admit I am immature.. He? He claims that he IS mature.. And I, being immature believes that he is mature..
Anyway, will share more abt us.. this time is the phone conversation not with their dad but with their mum.. Their mum knows that my family (my grandma to be precise) has objections.. Well, my best friend has the right to inform her family coz its her family.. So because their mum knows of my grandma's objections, she asked A to inform me to call her. I will blog abt it some day..
P/S: Forgot to blog this.. Alhamdulilah.. Allah fated me to be in the right company.. Ever since I started working in 2004, I have never get a taste of BONUS.. Coz my employment is either contract or temporary.. My first permanent job I was very happy coz my thoughts ran wild - BONUS.. Unfortunately, the company only give a pathetic 7 days = 1 week = a quarter month bonus.. :(
Alhamdulillah.. I received ONE MONTH bonus from ECSF!!! The feeling? Huh.. First time! I felt 'great' heehe.. I went to the right company after all..
Cheers..
