In furtherance to my entry of 21 March 2008, as promised here are my expectations.. Before I listed it down, please do not accuse me of being materialistic as in wanting a guy with 5 'C's. Those 5 Cs are not impt for me. Those 5 Cs cant guarantee I am able to lead a happy life so I dun really bother. All I want is these qualities:

1. He must be pious i.e never forgets to pray. Dalam bahasa melayu: Tak pernah tinggalkan sembahyang.. Alhamdulilah. If he prays, definitely he must keep himself clean i.e: no tattoos... =.=

2. His mode of transportation: either public transport or car.. If he has no car, never mind.. Just take public transport such as cabs or buses or trains.. strictly no motorbikes.. I am very scared of motorbikes. The mention of bikes.. I perspire already! *Shld he has a bike and wants to go out with me, he has to take the public transport.. I aint not going to take the bike.. Minta ampun.. I dont wish to take the risk.*

3. He never smokes, gambles, drinks and ask for $$ (there are guys who likes to ask $$ from us, woman... Like what the malay says, suka kikis duit perempuan...)

4. He has to show respect to woman i.e never raise his voice at a woman; banging the fist on the table at a woman, knowing that the woman is in the wrong. What I mean is (in malay) Mentang-mentang org lelaki kuat drpd org perempuan yg lemah, dia nak tunjuk lagak.. something like that... *sesiapa yg terasa, minta maaf la nyer*

5. He MUST NOT MIND THAT I CANT COOK AND I AM NOT GOING TO LEARN COOKING AS I DUN LIKE COOKING! *I only like to eat* :P

6. Previously, I did mention a guy must earn more than me and after receiving a few comments..I have think it over and I am not asking for much.. I am only asking for a guy to have at least an earning of $2K per month. Whether I will be earning more than $2K, it is impossible to get a guy to earn more than $2K so, I am already being very reasonable.. He must earn at least $2K. $50 less than $2K, I think I can accept, BUT if less than the $50 less than $2K.. SORRY. *tongue lashing*

7. To have a stable monthly income of at least $2K, he must not job hop. I dun like guys who likes to change jobs within less than a year. If he can change jobs, he can change girlfriends too, rite? So have a stable job..stay on the job for at least 2 years and above, I'll accept.

8. He must have at least a Diploma from any schools lah.. Private or poly..as long as have Diploma in anything is still consider as Diploma. ITE certs, I can consider... so not to worry if u have ITE certs.. :p If u have more than just a Diploma i.e Degree, Masters or PhD.. the better! ;)

9. If he can accept me, he shld also able to accept my family.. I have reiterate many times.. I have complicated family issues...

10. I have a weird character / personality.. Pple cant understand me.. I also sometimes cant understand myself. So whoever la.. He has to understand my weird mood swings.. :D

Actually points no. 9 and 10 should came after point no. 1 because these 3 (points no 1, 9 and 10), to me are the top 3 most impt qualities that I expect for a guy. However the reason why I put the other 2 impt points as no 9 and 10 because, its human nature la.. When pple read something, they will tend to forget whats the first thing they read but can remember whats the last thing they read. Hence thats why I put point no 9 and 10 (supposedly point no. 2 and 3) at the last so I want pple who read this to remember...

The above qualities are expected, if I happen to meet a malay man. What if I happen to meet with other race men? The other race man still have to obtain the 10 qualities BUT with a different twist.. the list:

1. Treat malay woman with respect. We, malays may not be the same as other races, cant be treated the same.

2. Must be able to accept me as a cat-lover. *Most guys who loves cats are malays... Other races loves dogs/rabbits/hamsters more than cats.. I understand la why so whoever shld also understand that I LOVE CATS SO MUCH..*

3. His mode of transportation: either public or car.. No car, nvm.. Just take public transport such as cabs or buses or trains.. no motorbikes.. I am very scared of motorbikes. The mention of bikes.. I perspire already! *Shld he has a bike and wants to go out with me, he has to take the public transport.. I aint not going to take the bike.. Pardon me.. I dont wish to take the risk.*

4. He never smokes, gambles, drinks and ask for $$ (there are guys who likes to ask $$ from us, woman... Like what the malay says, suka kikis duit perempuan...)

5. No tattoos.. I know other races likes to have tattoos as part of decorations on their body.. I dun like... So, absolutely no tattoos..

6. Earn more than $2K. To have a stable monthly income of at least $2K, he must not job hop. I dun like guys who likes to change jobs within less than a year. If he can change jobs, he can change girlfriends too, can't he? So have a stable job..stay on the job for at least 2 years and above.

7. He must have at least a Diploma from any schools lah.. Private or poly..as long as have Diploma in anything is still consider as Diploma. ITE certs, I can consider... so not to worry if u have ITE certs.. :p If u have more than just a Diploma i.e Degree, Masters or PhD.. the better! ;)

8. I have a weird character / personality.. Pple cant understand me.. I also sometimes cant understand myself. So whoever la.. He has to understand my weird mood swings.. :D

9. If he can accept me, he shld also able to accept my family.. and my family is kinda strict with religions..

10. Shld it is fated that I have to be with a non-malay guy, he has to be converted to a muslim. If he didnt want to.. I have no choice but to reject.. I will only accept if he is willing to convert to a muslim.

As usual.. point no 9 and 10 are the top 2, the most impt points..thats why I enlarge the font.. Heeh

Amyria pours her heart out @ 8:54 pm   |