I treat B like a friend of mine coz he is very friendly and very sociable.. he is very close with everyone.. But i can see tat whenever he is close with other female colleagues is just normal..

However, tis is not da case for me.. Whenever we walks together (he likes to walk beside me - i have no idea) to go for lunch, and sometimes we knocked off at da same time, he tends to be very close with me.. Very close in da sense tat when he stands very close to u, u can feel his body is touching urs..

I felt tat and I looked at him, he juz smiled.. Another occasion, when i wasnt noticing him, i think he wants to hold my hand coz when i turned to him and talk to him abt something, i saw he moved his hands away.. When i asked him wat was wrong, he juz said, "nothing" and he smiled at me and looked away.

He had escorted me to sch last week only twice b4 his reservist. I asked a few of my friends and these are 3 replies out of a a dozen?

Syafiq says:

I may not be surprise if there is kind of guy try to do the same thing towards the girl that he like. To my experience in my love life, i never did the same thing. hehe.. So anyways, maybe your friends and i have the same ideas of his actions, my advice, try to give it more times to judge before your jump any conclusions. You can be like you always do, act normal, time will tell where or when you should give some feedback towards his actions. As you know, he is a guy, if he is gentleman type, he would approach you first before you do. Obviously, tak elok lah kalau perempuan make the move first right? hehe... So, just keep it low, do wat you always do with him, relax... give him sometimes k. Y not u ask for close treatments, such as accompany you watch movies, hav a lunch sometimes out, or take awalk at the park after work or maybe, go out for window or shopping or spending a good time with him... That would spice up things up, but keep bare in mind, just be patients. Y not, try to bring him to the places that he love to go or spend a relax time... hehe... he escort u ey? well, i hav nothing more to say abt it, i think u should know the clue is quite obvious. So, wat do want to do now? For me.. i think i prefer u just keep it as usual, if he got guts, he will tell u the truth some day.... :D Thats all i can say now, you as a girl, just cool off yea?

Suresh says:

Well i guess perhaps he likes ya..probably in a few days time he might open up to u.....then see if u like him then why not...dun rush into it..take ur time..

Alice says:

Hi Maria,

I guess probably he is..as wat ur frens said...If a guy takes effort to escort u in order to get to know u better, that can be a good news for u! But just beware, u never noe, some guys, u noe they want to date u but we as girls won't know wat he exactly wants behind there or whether is a serious one or not...I mean nowadays relationships without commitment are very normal but then as u go deep further, u won't find that fair enough for you and it can hurt u a lot...

Just take things slow..give him time to know u and time for u to know him..it's very important..Relationship that develops too fast may not be a good thing if things dun go well later of the day...

A broken rship is unforgetable and will leave a permanent scar..probably will take years and years to heal, some not healing at all...

So dun let urself get this coz you'll find it hard to accept another if he's not as great as ur ex..or not as great as you want him to be..

Take care and all the very best!

Alice

Anyone out there who has something to say or advice.. Please flood my comment box.. I am more than juz elated to read ur advice.. :) He is now in reservist.. On 30 June, he left a few sms to me.. "If u miss me, u can ask me out for a date on sat or sun.." He even sms me in chinese characters and I get my chinese teacher to translate for me >> one day didnt c tat person seems separated for 3 autumns (years). My chinese teacher told me tat da phrase is suitable when sumone is missing sumone.. Phew! Lucky, she didnt suspect anything..

Sumhow, i kept thinking, does he really miss me? Or do i really miss him ?

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