Friday, June 09, 2006
Me not knwing how to cook n other pple make a big fuss abt it? Tis worries my mum as well as my grandma!! They do not want those pple to think tat becoz they didnt guide me well in housework chores/cooking etc. Its NOT their fault, its MINE. I am da stubborn one who didnt want to learn cooking and do I knw housework?
NO. U read it rite: NO. I am absolutely clueless abt housework chores! I kid u not. I remembered tat last year, I humiliated myself in front of da younger ones. I tend to get "gabra" whenever i did things so it spills. I was helping myself to pour a glass of juice getting ready for Ramadhan and someone was beside me offering a "Korma" and I was kinda nervous or like wat I had said "gabra", da whole juice spills on da table.
It was a humiliating incident!! My face was red!! I had vowed tat it will not happen in da same plc again but i was wrong.. it happen again! Da first time, was even more humiliating!!! >> Kopek sengkuang pakai jari instead of using da knife. Since tat incident, i told myself, i'm not going to be involved or helping out in any cooking session at da plc anymore...but da spilling of juice happen!! Argh!!!
At home, I kept up with da constant nagging frm both my mum n grandma.. Bingit!! Bingit!! Bingit!! My mum said, "Wats da use if U r a degree holder but dun knw how to cook, do housework etc." Duh..
My grandma kept on saying like, "No wonder u trouble urself to study this n that..u want to prevent frm doing housework!" I am not preventing myself frm doing housework..I am making use of my valuable time.
Those words above r still replaying in my ears. Sigh... sickening la! If in da future, u were to go n find a job, will there b a question, "Do u knw how to cook?" in da application form? Will there b a question, "How far u knw ur housework chores?" in da application form? I DUN THINK SO!! So, y make such a fuss abt it?!!
Actually there's sumthing personal tat i am considering whether to blog abt it or not. I reckon, mayb becoz of tis, my grandma always said those things other than da above mentioned words. She always babit one name. If she babit tat name, its Ok though but she always add tis, "U will become a non-virgin or pregnant coz tat one name will rape U when tat one name is drunk."
She said when pple drunk, they tend to do stupid, dirty or sinful things.. they will not knw whether it is their family or best friend or whoever coz they're alrdy drunk..
Who is tat one name i am toking abt? I dun knw whether to blog anot.. I have to think of da consequences.. Tat one name is no other pple... Tat one name was once a family (yup, past tense).
Let me think abt it whether to blog abt tis personal thing or not.. But here's a clue to wat I wanna write.. My Binte name is different frm Khalid n Atikah. Both of their names ended wif a Bin and Binte Sa'at respectively whereas mine isnt.
So, there u go.. Shld knw by now who i want to blog abt. And y was it got to b related wif my grandma saying those words to me. But den again, I'll have to think twice b4 blogging abt tis.. U may not knw of da consequences..inconvenience caused..
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P/S: Abt my grandma again.. tmr Indu will be having a bbq. It will b our last get together as she will b leaving SG for Australia for 3 years. The BBQ is gonna b held at Pasir Ris Park and of coz I dun knw how to get there hence I went with my former schmates/classmates of Informatics. Only Mulyadi (he's alrdy back in SG!! He has graduated frm RMIT!! Next year, will b my turn INSYA-ALLAH) is coming so I make up an appointment wif him HOWEVER, my grandma insisted me either to, 1) go alone or 2) dun go for da BBQ!!! Y? She said, "U and him go there together? If pple we knw saw u.. they will say a lot of things!!"
Oh watever. . . . Me and Mulyadi r juz classmates and schmates during our Advanced Diploma days, nothing more than tat!! Adi, if u r reading tis, go ahead and laugh ok. I admit, my grandma still treats me like a kid! So tmr, u dun sit close to me or try to b near me okie? Hehehe.. *winkz*
P.P/S: World Cup is here!!! Oh no!! Definitely, I cant have a gd nite sleep. How ironic, World Cup fever is ON, Singapore Idol fever is ON too!! Wow...
