Tuesday, August 23, 2005
WHY AM I BORN TO B A GIRL? WHY AM I BORN MALAY? A depression topic to discuss. Y muz they care wat others say? They cant force me 2 learn cooking JUZ NOT TO LET THOSE IDIOTIC BUSYBODIES TOKING BAD ABT THEM?! WHY AM I BORN MALAY? Malays have tis habit of 'jaga tepi kain org!' KPO! If they knw 'anak dara sulung Sapiah' dun knw how to cook, they will 'bawa mulut sana sini' & my mum will eventually got to knw abt it n will feel ashamed becoz of me! I UNDERSTAND TAT! I HAD TOLD HER, "U dun haf 2worry abt wat pple gonna say abt u n granny." (Saying sumthing like, "Mak dia dan nenek dia tak mau ajar ke - Her mum n grandma didnt teach her cook ah?) Its not ur fault or granny's. I, MYSELF DUN WISH TO LEARN COOKING!" But my mum said, "Kita kan org melayu.." (tis, I translate to Eng: It has been malay tradition since da olden days tat women are meant 2b housewifE! I find tat very CRAPPY!) and she continued, "Even if u urself think tat u r da one who doesnt wanna learn cooking, will those pple knw? NO! All they knw is ur mum n ur grandman didnt teach u n will get a bad name!" FCUK is a perfect vulgar to use to those idiotics busybodies out there who like to 'jaga tepi kain org!' Becoz of tat.. AKU JADI SASARAN!! I STRESS!!! I WAS BEEN PRESURSURIZE by all these!!! If only my mum wldnt knw those busybodies aunties!! Wldnt tat b better?! AKU NYE SUKALAH AKU NAK LEARN COOKING OR NOT! In my opinion, COOKING IS NOT IMPORTANT! Like, I'd written, if we're hungry, we can buy food frm fast-food restaurant, kopitiam or hawker/food centre. Y worry?! In fact, those pple in hawker/food centre..they earned a living..dun u knw tat? They earned a living n have to pay da rent of da stall every month.. if we all cook n dun wanna buy frm them...how r they themselves gonna live?! I did tell tat 2 both my mum & grandma but they said, "Everyday u buy food there for more than once if u want..money not wasted ah?! And those pple cook, they didnt use NO CHOLESTROL COOKING OIL, they used da usual cooking oil, wait u fall sick or grow fat..how?" Argh!! WATEVER I SAY DOESNT WORK! Sumtimes, my grandma likes to mock at me, humiliate me saying sumthing like: "Ur cousins since age 10, has learnt how to do housework and now learning to cook. BUT u r 21 gonna be 22 n.. " She went on n on... Born a guy better! coz if dun knw how to cook, no issues watsoever, n not compulsory for guys to learn cooking.. I think its FATE.. So wateva consequences/criticisms I faced, I have to endure. I wanna be myself. And being myself is 2do wat I want n not doing wat I dun wan Those pple who happened to read tis entry, if u knw me, dun even think of asking silly questions like, "How to marry if u dun knw cooking." to me coz I AM NOT GOING TO ENTERTAIN~~ Juz shut ur bloody mouth up and leave me 2 lead my OWN LIFE ALONE! tis issue abt me not knwing cooking or/and others making such a big fuss abt it..does not end here..it will continue..
A question I have 2ask and its OK if u pple CANT answer it. IS IT COMPULSORY for WOMEN TO KNW HOUSEWORK (esp COOKING?) If i were 2 ans, "yes," don't u think its UNFAIR? I always hear da term 'Housewife' but how come there isnt any term for "Househusband"?
If I were to ans: "No", A LOT OF BURNING QUESTIONS like, "U're alrdy 22 n u sure dun knw how to cook a single dish?"
Anyway, if women dun knw how to cook, ITS NOT A BIG ISSUE, ISNT IT? Men can do da cooking too!
I KNW I DUN LIKE cooking, hence I DUN WISH TO LEARN. Coz WHENEVER IF I'M HUNGRY, there's always a food centre nearby. I WONT STARVE to death!
But y r my family members (my mum & grandma) FORCING me? I REALLY HATE IT WHEN PPLE FORCING ME 2DO THINGS WHICH I DUN WANNA DO!! Even if those pple r my family members!
Da only reason they gave me: U R IN DA PROCESS OF GROWING 2B A WOMAN. U SHLD KNW AT LEAST HOW 2COOK. Even if u DO NOT WANNA COOK, PPLE WILL NOT SAY U R LAZY; THEY WILL SAY U DUN KNW HOW TO COOK. Y HER FEMALE FAMILY MEMBERS DUN NOT WANT TO TEACH HER - our REPUTATION WILL B TARNISH
