Monday, May 02, 2005
I dun understand my grandma! Why do I haf a difficult grandma like her? I juz dun understand Y. Anyone of u reading tis, I need some piece of advice k?
As 2day is PUBLIC HOLIDAY, we went on a family outing. To: Tampines Mall. Why tat far? Well, coz my mum - Starhub subscriber for my brother's phone - received $100 STARHUB Voucher.
And only 3 places we can go 2 redeem tat voucher - Cuppage Road, Raffles City and Tampines Mall. Hmm, since 2day is public holiday , we dun think Cuppage Road is available for business.
As for Raffles City, it is located in town area.. very hard 2get da parking space. So NO Choice, had 2go all da way to Tampines Mall - Journey frm the West to da East.
And I HAVE NEVA BEEN TO TAMPINES MALL B4! YES! NEVA! I HAVE NEVA TRAVEL 2DA EAST ALL ALONE B4, NOT EVEN WIF FAMILY. So, since 2day is da opportunity, I grabbed it!
I knw its a LONG JOURNEY frm here 2there. Da moment we got there, we headed off straight to Starhub shop at Level 2. Wat a lot of pple! I Hate crowded places!
Not only was da place crowd, we had 2queue! I hate queueing up as well. So we waited there for abt 3 hrs or so. Da journey alone was 1.5 hrs - by car!! Within those long hours, my grandma waited franticly for my call!
Huh? C'mon! I am 21 gonna b 22! Why muz I need 2call hm 2tel my wherabouts? She's treating me like a teenager! In fact, it was a fammily outing! So i didnt call. b4 we left da house, she didnt even inform me 2call her! When we got hm, she pulled a long face.
When I talked 2her 2tel her abt Tampines Mall is watever, watever, she asked me to SHUT UP. Not only did she asked me 2SHUT UP, she hurled abusive words at me! TAT SERIOUS?!
She called me "unreasonable slut", dun even wanna rem 2call hm..blah blah! She also mentioned wats da use i brought hp but neva call her at hm blah blah. Wat was my expression? NOTHING! I'm used 2it! 2day's not da FIRST time. I had been through tat A LOT. Example: Buying clothes. I always wear clothes - which is always 1/2, 3/4 or full length, neva ever 1/4 or sleeveless.
Sometimes if i wore sleeveless dress, I will always wear a cardigan outside. - Dun ask me y, according 2my grandma.. Muslims shld wear modestly
I knw wat I wear n I will buy jus like tat. But after buying, my grandma saw it, she will hurled abusive words at me - calling me "stupid whore". When I tried reasoning wif her tat da clothes I bought was wat i always wear(1/2, 3/4 or full length sleeve) she still scold me telling me tat I was stupid 2buy tat kind of pattern. JUST WAT KIND OF PATTERN SHE WANTS? But watever was her reason, she cant hurled words like tat 2me!
Tat was y i said, she hurled those abusive words at me 2day wasnt my first time. I wasnt even surprised. I juz really cant understand her. Last time, my hp did not have free incoming call & she always call n call 2find out my whereabouts. When da bills risen, she blamed me!
Now, when I have free incoming calls, she seldom call me 2find out my whereabouts. Instead, she was expecting my call! If i were 2call her everyday juz 2tell her my wherabouts, da bill wasnt cheap, ok? I paid da bill myself. Wat if i abide her n call her everyday juz 2tel her my whereabouts, my bill will flung up n definitely she will blame me - again!
Tat was Y i didnt call her frequently. I dun really understand her! She dun wanna call me n expect me 2call her whereby I was expecting for anyone 2call me coz FREE INCOMING CALL!
Back hm, she went on n on using those abusive words n telling me tat I was juz 'cheeky' 2go out 2 tat place far! Huh? I didnt go there ALONE but wif family!!!
Sigh. Its getting late. I betta go 2sleep n not thinking abt tis much. Gives me a headache! I haf enuff! Actually wanna blog abt y we went to Tampines Mall, wat phone my mum bought for my bro BUT seeing my grandma giving me da cold shoulder.. i dun even wanna blog! I think my bro was here first..he might haf blog. Go check it out. His name is Khalid.
