This chat log was on 13 October.. On 13 October, I went for a job interview,remember? And i was approached by sumone who said that hewas my senior back in sec sch.Read the chat log first (me with Mokhtar), then continue reading my other paragraphs..
I delete some of the irrelevant chattings..

ME:ok b4 i go 2sleep, i wan to say someting
Mokhtar:ok...shoot
ME: just now when adek tngh nak tunggu bas nak balik rumah(after my interview), ada 1 guy ni approach me..
ME: cara dia approach me tu mcm dia kenal adek TAPI adek sampai skg ni tngh fikir dia siapa.. sebab adek tak kenal..dia kata dia my senior..
ME: at hm, i browse thru my sch mag..tak de pun muka dia..
ME: tapi dia kata dia kenal adek..tapi asal dia tanya..my name?dia tanya cam ni: "Ala..i lupa ah nama u..siapa eh?" Adek ni plak ingat kan dia mmg ah my senior so I say lah "Maria" then dia pun.."Oh yeah..Maria!"
ME: adek ade tanya dia siapa adek tak ingat.. dia kata "ala tak kan tak ingat ni eddy.. your senior..u were in sec 1 and me in sec 4.. sekolah mana tu.. (dia think of a sch name)" when adek plak ckp "Jin Tai Sec sch" lepas tu dia pun.. "oh ah ah.. jin tai "

Mokhtar: wah ada peminat seh..
ME: ah??? Adek belum masuk tv per.. mana leh ade peminat..
Mokhtar: tak semesti nyer masuk tv baru ada peminat
ME: tapi knp cara dia tu mcm gi2.. ?
ME: ALAMAK..dia minta my number..adek gi beritau dia plak...
ME: so any comments?

Mokhtar: well ...if he calls u.....it means dia ada hati tu..hehehe
ME: org tanya serious dia buat main2!
Mokhtar: betul... just wait and see...he will make his move..
ME: yah yah big bro knows best
Mokhtar: but be careful with whom u go out with...
ME: i knw

Mokhtar: always met @ a place where there is crowd...
ME: I knw oh yeah..i forget.... b4 he left..dia tanya adek...dia tanya..adek dah ade bf ke belum skg..adek ckp ah no.. dia tanya lagi.. knp.. but i didnt ans him coz bus pun dah dtg..
ME: Adek rimas lah kalau schmates lama jumpa and ask "Got bf already?"
ME: dia kata nanti mlm dia kol..Mokhtar: but he did nt cal rite
ME: no

Mokhtar: there i told u...
ME: told me wat?
Mokhtar: i know he didnt call.
ME: how do u knw? do u know his motive of doing tat?
Mokhtar: dia malu kot...maybe he will sms adek besok..
Mokhtar: but a werd of advice...
Mokhtar: if he wants to meet...
ME: i know find a crowded plc...

Mokhtar: meet him in an open area...
ME: maybe the piece of paper yg dia tulis my number tu hilang..so tak dpt kol.. hahaha
ME: ok klah thanks for listening.. me dah nak tido ni..esok keje.. bye
Mokhtar: ok...
ME: gd nyte
Mokhtar: jaga diri..

On 14 october, while I was in WESSC, i received a call. The number isan unknown number.. I answered. It was tat guy.. Since I was bz.. I canttalk much to him. But he called me again the same day b4 i went offto sleep. Eww.. I dun really like the way he sounded.. He talked to melike wanting me to be attracted to him..u know.

Since tat 14 october, he has been calling me almost everyday.. Lucky,my hp is now Free Incoming calls(still using SingTel) so wat the heck!Just "entertain" him lah!

I asked if he was really my senior.. he WAS. He mentioned all his peersof the same batch as him.. I know a few of them like Nur Eddie( he is Eddy Shahril), Yazid, Irzaq and Muliadi.. When I asked him how come I cant find his picture in the sch mag..he said, he was absent on the day of phototaking.. Oh..

We finally met on 18 October. I went back to my workplace to collect my pay.. my boss forgot to hand me my pay by cheque on 15 october so hecalled me to collect my cheque.. I dun mind since the place is NOT far BUT near..

The nite b4(17Oct) he already asked if we could meet. I said YES but the place is at IMM. When he asked y, i told him after meeting him, I have to meet my elder cousin. There was silence. He gave a sigh of disappointment and said, "Ok, meet u tmr at IMM."

Now..read the emails i sent to most of my friends; CC to Mokhtar..So far, only Ainn(best friend) and Mokhtar replied..

Hello! Hey, remember, I tell u abt a guy approaching me? He said he is our senior? Friday he called again n wants to meet. So I agree at IMM 1pm.

When we meet at IMM, he began to touch me.. Bila I elak.. Guys, they are stronger than girls so dia tepis.. and so he still touch lah..

Then after we asked each other questions(he still touching me), he proposed to me.. He wants to be my bf.. He gives me time to think..

Cam ne ah..kalau dia call nanti? Tau lah I have to say NO tapi takut ah kalau dia demanding? Belum in relationship, dia dah touch2 apa lagi in a relationship..payah tu..


Reply from Mokhtar:

The first date and he oreadi proposed to become ur bf...ehmmm. Something 's not right here. In addition,touched u. That is a biggest mistake a guy could ever make... If he calls,asks him these ;
1. Why do u like me,we haven't known each other that well.?

2. Then asks this question to urself....do u find him to ur liking ?If ur answer to question no 2 is NO....Tell him that u dont want to make any committments yet,u need to concentrate on ur studies first.
If ur answer to question no 2 is YES,tell him why not be frens first and get to know each other better. Then see if there is chemistry...take the relationship to the next level. But stress also that u dont like to be harassed.
If he likes u...he got to learn to respect u.

Hope the above are helpful to u. But at the end of the day,it's u who makes the final decision. Be firm and positive in ur answer.Yes,u may hurt someone...but isn't it better to to know now and regret later than regret now and know later.

Salam Ramadan,
Mokhtar

My answer is NO of course! I dun EVEN know him! "I DO NOT ENTERTAIN TOTAL STRANGERS ESP. GUYS like him.. I DO NOT ENTERTAIN SUCH CRAPS" Oh, i forgot to elaborate on the touching.. To some of u.. u may wondering: "Just touch your hands ok lah" But he didnt touch my hand..he touched all over my body in front of all the crowd!! He wanted me to sit with him in a dark staircase near the lift at IMM i said NO. When he asked y i told him: " Ini kan bulan puasa, tak manis kalau kita duduk berdua-duaan di staircase sunyi tu". When I said tat, his face was red. Dun know if he was angry or embarassed. *who does he thinks i am?*

Next reply is from Ainn..

Maria, dat guy is certainly NOT a GOOD guy!! He isnt your bf and he had touched you?! Dia ingat kau ni apa? Perempuan murahan ke? Can u imagine wat wld he do 2u once he has become your bf?! I know u have made up your decision, NO is the answer! Sometimes, we have to be firm. I know u dun like to hurt pple's coz u've been hurt in love b4. U do not know tis guy.. maybe he is a total stranger who posed off as our senior! Remember just say NO. No matter how he tries to plead u, just say NO! I dun understand lah Maria, y bad guys are always attracted 2u? Y not good guys?!! Tis guy is NOT the FIRST bad guy u met. There are some others. Tats all I have to say.

Salam Ramadhan,
Ainn

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