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AMYRIA

my story. my words. my life. my prerogative


Friday, October 08, 2004

Pple just dun know MY LIFE!!

Some Pple just dun know MY Life! They only know me in a short time so tats y they DUN Know.. I am 20 coming to 21, of course I SHLD know how my life is. Those who know me longer WILL know! So wats up with tat person?!

Well, wat was this abt? Well, I received a tag msg: "Y dun u say tat all lyrics are abt u!" Tat person thinks I am "perasan"? Ya lah..coz i said Britney's lyrics are abt me.. Hey, i did write COINCIDES rite? Tat person blind or wat?

Anyway, I wld like to share with u my past 20plus years of my life.. And if u do really listen carefully to the lyrics, hey, it does describes me and I use the word "describe" NOT "suits". Describe n suits are two different words with different meanings..

My Life:

I am OVERPROTECTED

Read the lyrics of Britney Spears' Overprotected..and u will understand tat my life is as coincidence as the lyrics..


Hello to the girl that i am
Youre gonna have to see through my perspective
I need to make mistakes just to learn who i am
And i dont wanna be so damn protected
What am i to do with my life?
How am i supposed to know whats right?
I can't help the way i feel
But my life has been so overprotected!
I dont need nobody telling me just what want
What im gonna do about my destiny
I'm so fed up with people telling me to be
Someone else but me!

* I am getting sick n tired of my life been overly protected!! Argh!! I cant do this n tat.. I have to follow this n tat!! Sometimes, I envy my friends... when they reached 18, they went clubbing and discos for the first n last time to have the experience.. BUT ME? I cant... Hmm...i wonder how was it like to be at clubs and discos? Also, I cant be late by a few minutes.. if they told me to reach home at a certain time and i was late by slightly few minutes.. I'll receive a call!!!!

They want me to be like Siti Nurhaliza, the popular M'sian singer.. What? Be popular like her? Wahaha.. plz lah. others will not BE HAPPY. Why they want me to be like Siti Nurhaliza? Well, she dress sensibly(sometimes I do dress sensibly), dun like to take photos with guys if she is the only one girl. She dun care wat others say abt her,how she dressed, she just ignored them.

Hmm, I am doing wat Siti is doing(dun care wat other says abt how I dressed and wat pple say abt me) but abt other things, cant my family just let me be ME? Its my wish rite whether or not to take photos with guys when I am the only girl.. Is it a crime? Well, I can understand coz I am a Muslim.. As a Muslim girl, it is not nice if only one girl posing with a whole bunch of guys for a photo.. Look, there were other girls but they were just camera shy! But my Grandma still say, not good.. she said, "Mcm perempuan tak de maruah.Kalau perempuan tak nak gambar, kau jgn lah bergambar! Nanti kalau org yg kenal nampak kau, apa nanti dia akan kata? Mcm2 dia bleh kata: perempuan murahan lah, tak tau jaga diri, gatal lah.."(*Hmm..how to translate this to English?*)

I know they care abt me.. But they shld know tat I am already a grown up, I can take care of myself.. In fact, I assure them tat I will be fine.. However, they still think tat I am still Young n need more guided protection!! Sigh..

Well, I have neva had freedom anyway.. Neva allowed to go out with friends coz my Grandma DO NOT TRUST them. She said: "Who knows, they may stab u from the back?" Whenever, my friend called me thru my house number but I wasnt in, and they called my hp number. They called just to chit-chat.. When I got back home, I was bombarded with questions! My Grandma said there was a gal/boy called for u on the phone, and she asked who is she/he? When I just answered "friend", she wasnt happy.. She wants a specific answer!

So, I had to say the names of whoever called me and again, she will ask which friend?(Secondary, Informatics or others) and wateva is the reason they called me?! I CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE!!*


NOT A GAL NOT YET A WOMAN
* In the eyes of my family, I am still a (baby) girl!! And due to tat, pple around me who dun really knw me thinks I havent grow up! And I am still immature.. Well, i cant blame them... I have to blame myself for having a family like tat.. Sigh.. when will I be a grown up in their eyes?
I did tell my grandma tat there are pple "insulting" me saying I havent grow up. Guess wat she told me? "U are still not a grown up, u r still 20.. So, definitely, u r not a grown up yet".
Also, I just recently tell her tat I am taking a biz degree. Pple who are taking my course, must speak n behave like an adult.. Well, of course, I can learn and I had tried once before studying for my degree. My Grandma scolded me! She said, "Kau jgn pandai2 nak jadi org dewasa! Kau dan masih budak lagi!"(* Can sumone help me translate, I am feeling a bit pissed off now, so I am very lazy to translate it :D *)*

Lucky

* I may look cheerful...lively..friendly.... But u will neva knw wat is missing in my life.. Sometimes i cry n when I think of it... alone at nite in my room.. Although I shared a room with my grandma, she didnt knw I cried coz I cried silently in my heart.... But only my close friends will knw..why i always cry.. *
My Prerogative

The lyrics in bold coincides with my life.



Get Busy!
EVERYBODY'S TALKING ALL THIS STUFF ABT ME
WHYD DONT THEY JUST LET ME LIVE?
I DONT NEED COMMISSION,
MAKE MY OWN DECISIONS
That's my prerogative
THEY SAY I'M CRAZY
I REALLY DONT CARE
That's my prerogative
THEY SAY NASTY
BUT I DONT GIVE A DAMN
Getting girls is how I live
Some messy questions
WHY AM I SO REAL?
BUT THEY DONT UNDERSTAND ME
I really don't know the deal about her brother
Trying hard to make it right
Not long ago
BEFORE I WIN THIS FIGHT,SING
EVERYBODY'S TALKING ALL THIS STUFF ABT ME
WHY DONT THEY JUST LET ME LIVE?
TELL ME WHY I DONT NEED COMMISSION
MAKE MY OWN DECISION
That's my prerogative
It's my prerogative
(it's my prerogative)
IT'S THE WAY TAT I WANNA LIVE
(it's my prerogative)
I CAN DO JUST WAT I FEEL
(it's my prerogative)
NO ONE CAN TELL ME WAT TO DO
* Whenever I tried making decisions on my own, my Grandma hurled abusive words at me! She said, I defy her orders! Trying to be an adult! Well, tats how my Family life is.. Tat is a LOT more but I wont disclose it here.. coz it is TOO Personal..

Anyway, to those pple Out there!(yg tak senang dgn cara aku) This is how I WANNA LIVE MY LIFE.. WHETHER OR NOT U ARE HAPPY OR UNCOMFORTABLE WITH IT, plz dun poke ur noses to my affairs..ok?! I dun care U wanna say abt me. Only my family can have a say coz THEY ARE MY FAMILY AND NOT OUTSIDERS! I lead my OWN LIFE! So just bug off! If u all still think I am "perasan" tat Britney's lyrics is abt me, GASAKLAH. CANT BE BOTHER anymore! I have Betta things to do!*

Lastly, I know who is the person who tag me saying: "Oh plz..kau tu mmg selenger.. lembab... apa2 lagu pun suits kau!" (Oh plz..u r a blur n slow,watever songs also suits u!). I shall not mention the name here.. How do I know? Well, the way the person wrote 'that' in short form is 'tt',and i had received a bombard smses from that person b4 and the person did mention tat I am (slow)... So, the person must be sumone I know..

Anyway, Tat person OUGHT TO BE ASHAMED by saying I am blur n slow.. HELLO.. IF I AM BLUR N SLOW, I WLD'NT HAVE TAKEN DEGREE.. STUDY UNTIL ADVANCED DIPLOMA, I STOPPED KNOWING TAT I AM SLOW AND CANT CATCH UP! Y DO I CONTINUE? COZ.. WHEN I SAY I WANNA HAVE A UNIVERSITY DEGREE, I WILL MAKE SURE I GO FOR IT AND ALSO, I DUN THINK I AM SLOW LIKE WAT TAT PERSON HAD SAID..

And didnt the person know tat it might be insulting to others who viewed my blog? Who knows, those who viewed my blog are university degree students as well? They will have the thinking tat person has the perception tat those who are pursuing degree are al blur and slow. Plz lah, if u wanna insult or criticize me, can u think abt other pple? They may get insulted as well ok?!

Andy Joshua Lim, Shirin Hushairi are taking degree thru distant-learning.. If tat person had tat perception I'd just mentioned, its like tat person has no respect for the idols semi-finalist who are pursuing for a higher education..

PLZ..HAVE U HAD ENUFF? First I remember there was a tag saying: "Maria, nak join singapore idol..confirm hujan lebatnya! Oh plz jgn nak berangan..suara mcm katak!" I know it MUST BE the SAME person.. Whether or not, I wanna join singapore idol or any singing competition, is my wish rite? And since young, I Love singing.. So Y cant I sing?! In fact, my whole family LOVES to sing! My mum, me, my younger brother and my younger sister Loves singing.. So wats up with tat?

Tat person said to stop my imagination? Wat imagination? Everybody can and knows how to sing, it just a matter of voice nice or sucks.. I dun know whether my voice is nice or sucks.. let the EXPERTS COMMENT..NOT TAT PERSON..TAT PERSON IS NOT AN EXPERT..IF TAT PERSON IS AN EXPERT..TAT PERSON CAN BE THE FIFTH JUDGE FOR SINGAPORE IDOL!

Amyria pours her heart out @ 7:01 pm   |


The Lady

Amy Maria, 27 year old femme, who loves singing as her passion. Relatively a quiet person, especially towards people she doesn't know very well. However, people who she call her friends, know her as a very cheerful, friendly and a little talkative kinda person. Basically, she thinks everybody can reach nearly every goal, just need a great portion of staying power, motivation, and enthusiasm. She also believes that she's patient and relatively calm - in the past, even so, sometimes she still can be very quick-tempered. On the contrary, most of the time she loves to accept challenges. She has purity and sweetness of a girl. And no matter how old she get, she can stay youthful. She also possesses a motherly character. She is kind and can show consideration to others. Once she starts on something, she will not give up half way, or show weakness. She knows how to get on in life. She is rather suspicious type of person. She doesn't tend to take every word of other person straightly.

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Her Reflections

Parti Sutra , Hasniza's Wedding, Asian Idol Celebration, 30 Dec 2007 At Jurong Point, Aliff Aziz at Bukit Panjang Plaza, LIVE THE DREAM Jurong Point Roadshow, Thank You Roadshow, Anugerah 2007 FINALISTS Roadshow, Splash of Colours Family Day, Me and Dira @ Vivo City, Keep The Heritage Alive, 25 Feb 2007, Hady's 2007 Birthday Bash, Hady @ VivoCity, HapyHadys Gathering, Roadshow @ Jurong Pt , Selamat Pengantin Baru, Po Yee's Birthday, BSB Concert, SCDF Heritage Gallery, WESSC Camp 2005, Anugerah 2005 VCD Launch, Lime Sonic Bang, Konsert Hanyut, Bazar Raya Utara, Rosliah's Wedding, Mike's Farewell,

Her History

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Her Cliques

.Aini
Aiser. Alice. Aphrodite . Ayu. Az Revalina. Baby Seniorita. Elia's old Blog. Elia's new Blog. Fairuz . Farah. Fat Cat. Fikq HapyHady. Ijah. Kak Juliza. Maria Shazwani. Melissa. Melia HapyHady. Mulyadi. Nulyz. Ria HapyHady. Rizar. Sabrina . Salmah. Shidah. Shirin Hushairi. SV HapyHady . Syafiqah HapyHady . Syaliza. Syasya . Syidah's OLD blog. Syidah's NEW blog. Tia. Wawan. Zohra HapyHady.

Her Singerz

BRITNEY SPEARS/ TAUFIK BATISAH/ FAUZIE LAILY/ ALIFF AZIZ!/ AMY MASTURA/ HADY MIRZA/ HYRUL ANUAR/ JAY CHOU/

Her Favourites

CAT WELFARE| SOS ANIMALS| ANIMAL RESCUE| ANIMALS LOVERS| SPCA| HAPPY CATZ| Friendster| WWE| 98.7FM| Power98FM| Song Lyrics|KCAP| Donburk| MINICLIP GAMES | MTV ASIA| YOU TUBE Videos|

Her Music