Sunday, September 12, 2004
Hello babe! I have to sen you an email because I can't comment on your blog; it says that only members of this blog can comment.
I've read a comment by Anura on 9 Sept. Although the comment wasn't about your 9 Sept entry title: Vote for Taufiq... but its ok anyway..
Maria, you're too QUIET!! Even when you are at home, you seldom communicate. You only talk when there's a need to. You will only talk if you were been asked some questions or one of ya family members talks to you first. BUT that does not mean u r ARROGANT! They dun know you that much, how could they anyhow say you are one? Anyway, ALL your comments from Aug 28 to Sept 9 are all VISIBLE.. You didn't delete any of it.. Why did the comment by Anura said that you delete the comments?
Forget it! I hate to see my Best friend being a target for all these disputes. But let me just tell advice you on something.. You are too quiet, hence other pple find you arrogant, unfriendly. SHOW to them that you ARE NOT like what they think! PROVE THEM WRONG!
About O levels, that's not important anymore. Before I continue, I want my email to be publised in ya blogspot so that THEY can read.. so tat THEY know that there is actually a Friendly, Helpful side of u...
Maria, among our friends, you have always been the smartest.. You always top ya class. Among all the malays, you, Fadhil n Iqbal were vying for the Top Malay Student position. For N levels, you are not among the TOP 3.. Surprising rite? So those who pass N levels, go to O levels. So when we were in Sec 5..when Fadhil encountered any problem in his studies, he approached you for help.. Did you turn him down? NO!
If you r ARROGANT, u would say this to him: "Asal kau tanya aku? Kau dan aku kan kau lagi pandai..solve yourself lah" But I don't think you convey that to him, I saw you coaching him.. You do sincerely and willingly help not only Fadhil but others in their studies.. NOW IS THAT CALL ARROGANT?!
Before the release of O level results, we were discussing among ourselves who could be the Top Malay student in Sec 5 for O Levels.. We were all pining hopes on u.. But when the results were out, how shocking it was. You didnt do well, in fact, we did better than you. You were'nt envious of our achievements, in fact you felt proud of us.. Till now, you still kept in touch with us, U never forget a friend. That's the thing I like about you.
ARROGANT pple are those pple who do not wish to entertain pple who are lessly educated.. But DO THEY KNOW that most of our friends are all ITE students, did you look down on them? NO! Even Rosliah n Nazrul who are only O level graduate, they didnt continue their studies..did you insult them? Lok down on them? Didnt want to contact them anymore? NO! You are happy to be their friend! So how could THEY possibly say you are ARROGANT?!
So when I read all those sickening english comments, I was angry. How could a great gal like you been regard as sombong/arrogant to the eyes of others? I did some soul-searching and came to a conclusion that maybe you are too quiet so pple have that kind of perception about you.. Or maybe bcause you seldom speak malay so that could be another reason.
Whether or not, you do not like to speak malay or do not like to voice out, WHY must they CARE? This is your LIFE! You feel comfortable this way.. But somehow you have to think. Take for example the singing trophy. So WAT if they do not believe... Just keep it to yourself, you do not need to publish here in your blogspot.. When the time comes for you to show off your talent, then you secretly filled up a form and then who knows you are already in Top 10 for a singing competition..
*Just because my friend did things wrongly, pple assume her to be Arrogant?! Oh plz! U guys r WRONG!*
Thats all I have to say. Remember: This is your LIFE. Only you yourself can change/control your own life. Of course not forgetting your family... They have the right to control you. You've kept complaining that they did not give you any freedom. How to give you freedom if u yaself neva proof to them that you are now a grown up and could take care of yaself. Am I right?
Lastly, BE CONFIDENT n BE TRUE to yaself. Bye for now. Take care, my friend.
