Saturday, July 18, 2009
I have removed FMA from my facebook contact list and had blocked her from viewing / accessing my profile. I do not need to tell her why I do so. I believe she should know obviously the reason. Too bad that though, I have removed her from my hp contact list, we will still bound to meet every Mon to Fri, 8.30am to 5.45pm. coz we are working in the same company. It is my fault for recommending her to work with me at the same company. Ever since she came, she keeps telling me that this person said abt me, this person dun like me.. She is doing that in order to get attention and also she is trying to make me hate that person! In order to support her incredible lie, she used other pple's names. Since she mention names, I can just go over and clarify with the names mentioned. I did. And one of them send her a text messages and she knows that her true colours will soon be exposed and she can't hide anymore. She always go to DCJ and said that her superior told her that I am so childish and immature for writing whatever comments in FaceBook. I doubt her superior is the type of person FMA claims her to be. FMA keeps mentioning her superior's name to support her story until I can't take it anymore, I will wait till FMA has gone back home and I approach her superior for clarification. Her superior was shocked. It tells me something. FMA is telling a lie. When she herself bad mouth abt me and my mum, I decided thats the last straw! Why she bad mouth my mum? Well, I treat her like a friend. I trusted her to repair my laptop with low cost. She told me that my laptop can't be repaired and I would like to have it back, she demand me to pay her. She will not return my laptop back unless I paid her. She called my house and speak to my mum and demand $300-$400 payment in exchange for the laptop! What is this? (She asked her fiance to call home since she is a hearing-impaired). I have shoot her an email telling her that I will talk to her until she apologizes and promised not to do it again. She did apologize but she is smart! She apologize to me when only 3 of us are around (myself, herself and one more colleague who does not know abt this). She did not apologize to me in the presence of BYL, DCJ, JKC and the rest of the hearing-impaired staff. She even promised me that she never do it again. I trusted her. But she still continues.. Recently, she came over to me and asked me if me and A has broken up. I tell her NO. She did not believe me and assured me further and again I told her NO. She nodded her head, understood. But 5 mins later, she went over to DCJ and tell him this, "MBS and her bf has broken up, my superior told me that MBS is immature and childish for writing comments in FaceBook." HELLO! What comments? I did not write any comments.. Even if I did, why she bother? And I remembered her superior had not arrived to office yet, so how could she have told FMA that? FMA has betrayed my trust in her friendship! Yes, I can forgive her coz Allah is Forgiving but I do not want more trouble and problems from her so I removed her from my facebook list. I believe that she will still spread lies abt me to some of the other pple in the company (because the email I shoot at her was only cc to a few pple) so before she does so, I am announcing it here because I do not wish to be misjudge. It is ok to lose a friend like her. I treat her as friend knowing that she does not have frends. But what did she do to me? Backstab me! Now I understand why she has no friends. Because of what she did. I have enough. 3 times. She did it to me 3 times. First time, she tried to get me into trouble with the company. She ever told to the hearing-impaired staffs that I heard from the BOD's opening speech during Chinese New Year Dinner that the company will be having some trips next year. Come to think of it, if this untrue news spread around, I will get the blame! Second time, when she can't get any payment from me for my laptop, she demanded payment from my mum. When she can't get the payment, she told DCJ this, "MBS mum always control MBS finances, thats why MBS always has to borrow $$ from me and always pay me in instalment of $2." W.T.F!!! To summarize it all, I believe FMA is a revengeful type of person. She may seek revenge. So I am going to defend myself here and u people are the witness. I recommend her to work same company as I am so I should be responsible for her misbehaviour. If she dares to create trouble again, I will have to let the management know about this and put a stop to it. ================================================================== Like I've mentioned, she is a revengeful person.... Tell u more later... For now, this continues.... I have cut ties with her. That means I did not wish to talk to her or have anything to do with her and definitely there will be a few pple bound to notice us and instead of approaching me, will approach her and of course she wanna save face, will push the blame on me and a few may believe her. So, the reason is pretty simple - I want her to stop nonsense so that I can have peace at work / clear my name. Very frequently she will bother me at workstation (before going to the ladies or pantry) asking for TODAY or MY PAPER from me. That's fine. However, she will ask abt how's my life. Sometimes I answer, sometimes I dun answer and sometimes I just answer, "My life pretty good, OK.." She went on further asked abt my work because she noticed that I have a lot of work (and she has went to few pple in the office saying that I am slow in my work.. duhz - kalau aku slow in my work da lama la kena tendang!) on my desk. I did not want her to probe further so I just ans, "later can talk again... busy need to finish this urgently..." She does not seem happy. She wants exact answer. Soon, she walked off. Sometimes too, before lunch, she will come over and asked me with whom and where to for lunch. I said I dun know. She seems pretty excited when I answered her I dun know so that she can ask me to accompany her. But well, I have my own lunch kakis... So sorry... This has been going on everyday. Sometimes, she ever tell me that she does not like this person and that person. So? Why must she tells me? She expect me to be on her side not to like the person as well! Look, I am here in this world to make friends and not being enemies. Sighz.. So when I ignore her "plight", she starts her nonsense...she involves names of the person in the company to support her lie. U tell me, if u were in my position... will u have peace? Will u have concentration on ur work? Whenever she came to my desk talked abt this person and that person has a dislike on me, I find that her words unsettled me and gives me more pressure! Its not the work that pressurize me, its her! Thus I can't concentrate on my work. She has tried to create friction against me and a few other colleagues... She used their names to support her lie in order for me to hate them! I did not go to the names mentioned as I do not wish to pursue the matter but recently I did coz this person's name's has been mentioned a few times by her. And .....Its no use to mention abt this again. Anyway, before I end this... I admit that this kinda of thing may jeopardize our rice bowl but I am just clearing my name. Before she says different story (when anyone approach her asking why we're not talking anymore), I will put it up here and explain the whole story (in summarY). Last but not least, have to say it in my own language with a mixture of English, "DIA LEBIH CEPAT DARI KU... AKU CUMA GERTAK AJER SEKIRANYA DIA BUAT LAGI, AKU AKAN REPORT DIA... and wanna know what happens next? DIA YG REPORT AKU! She didnt appreciate my recommendation... She nak jeopardize periuk nasi ku! Why pple like her exist ah? P/S: I have been observing her, I guess she knows abt this so she try to win back trust by chatting and getting their attention. Well, its OK but just a piece of reminder. Never buy her story if she were to say this person or that person said u are fat la, ugly la, useless and stupid uni grad la etc etc.. and never share personal life with her, that is even more dangerous. ================================================================ True enough, management and one of the directors called me in 2 different days. They both asked for what happen. I apologized that this has been known to them, and I will make sure it won't happen again. Do I get kick out? Well, the case is close. Not that serious. Even if it is serious, both of us (FMA & me) has to be terminated, to be fair. So since they rest this case, I am still working. Phew. On Friday, sources told me that the perpetrator has approached certain pple and express her disappointment. She told (as in write in piece of paper) a few colleagues that I was being called to see the GM and one of the directors and why am I still here?! WHAT?!! HELLO!! So, her intention of reporting to the management before I do is to get me sack?! Does she know that if I am being sack, she has to be sacked too... GM told the same thing to her as well! So she must say thanks to the GM for not sacking me else, she will be sack too! Told u, she is a revengeful person!
Saturday, July 11, 2009
All had known the demise of Michael Jackson on 26 Jun 09 (or was it 25 Jun 09?), and the big ruckus everything became after his death. Not forgetting also the speculation of whether did he really convert to a Muslim or not and so forth ...
I believe the same question has been rolling down your mind too... Will he be given a burial as a muslim or the faith he was brought up with.
Whatever it is may his soul rest in peace... Amin
Saturday, July 04, 2009
My company organized a Movie event for their fellow staffs.
Married staffs - entitled to 5 tickets + 1 ticket (for self)
Single staffs - entitled to 1 ticket + 1 ticket (for self).
Guess who I brought to the movie?
My younger sister.
Why do I bring younger sister - a question impose by the minahs in the office (well, one of them la - the one I have been talking abt in this blog). My answer: Family is first priority.
The day came - 3 July. Though I did not watch Ice Aged 1 and 2, I do enjoy Ice Aged 3 : Dawn of the Dinosaur. It is funny. Really funny and cute.
Yes, I do enjoy the movie but ain't happy with the seating arrangement. My close colleagues were sitted at Rows G, H, J and K. My sister and I were at Row N. Behind row N is Row P. Though my sister does not mind the seating arrangement coz when she goes for movies, she always said, "sit anywhere also can" but I am not satisfied! Why do the management had to arrange me to be sitted near the Minahs and gang! What makes them think I am one of them! Hello! I am NOT in the same frequency as them! Puhleez!
And after one of them (not the one whom I have been talking abt in my blog - another one in another dept) gave a stare at my sister, my sister too begun not to like her seating arrangement. Yes, that minah stare at my sister! I know why. That minah tak nak ada org lebih cantik or berpakaian lebih cantik dari dia! Also, perhaps she has been hearing the "flying news" that my sister is more stylish, stunning, fashionable than me (I am not jealous - I am proud of her!), so maybe she has seen my sister for herself and can't accept that she has to agree with the above qualities in my sister so she gave a bloody stare at my sister! My sister whispered this to me, "If she's not happy, tell her to come and see me."
And the lady who was sitting opposite me in the office was seated at Row P! Rite behind my seat! Duhz! The next time ECSF organized a movie event or any such events, I wanna request to them to arrange me to be sitted far away from them. I am not in the same league as them. Bleargh!
Saturday, June 27, 2009
1. Receive my salary PLUS 1 month bonus! Yes, another bonus. However, the 1 month bonus is not the salary of year 2009, but my old salary of 2008. Which means $1650 (bonus) + (current salary) $1730. Of course, there's CPF and MMBF contribution deducted from the total of $3380.
2. GST $$ will be credited to our accounts by 1 July. Woah... The month of Jun / Jul, I am "loaded". Hah
3. I've catch the movie, TRANSFORMERS:RISE OF THE FALLEN today. I rate it as 5 FULL STARS! This is a MUST WATCH movie! Optimus Prime relives again! Hah.
Last but not least, R.I.P Michael Jackson and Farrah Fawcett.
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
1. I am passionate
2. I have a customer service first mindset
3. I think positively
4. I know my job well
5. I solve problems
6. I personalize my service
7. I am dependable
8. I respect others
9. I am a team player
10. I strive for improvement
Saturday, June 13, 2009
My grandmother used to tell me that if I am working with a lot of Chinese and very few malays, I don't have to worry. I did ask her the reason, why. Before she answered, let me tell u that my grandmother actually agreed if I wanna buy new clothes or whatever to look presentable. However, she told me not to always buy new clothes fearing that people will get envious of us. Which is true. I am experiencing it while working at ECSF. I am referring to the same minah lady - ever since she was transferred, she seems not to be happy with me BECAUSE I AM CLOSE with SOMEONE she dislikes - so stupid and childish. She is not happy with that someone is between her and that someone, why get me involved? Minahs are like that. They have that kind of thinking. That minah lady is already as fat as a swine.. definitely she does not have any dressing sense. And how dare she bitch about my dressing?! Take a look at the photo below and tell me if the blouse looks revealing .... When I wore it, I don't feel funny. In fact, I feel very comfortable. I look different. Woo! Hahaha... My grandmother saw it too and she said the blouse is nice. My grandmother did not even mention if this blouse is too sexy or too revealing. HOW DARE THAT MINAH BITCH ABT MY DRESSING? That minah saw me wearing the above blouse and asked, "What are u wearing? Tak senonoh.. Ur grandmother didnt say anything?" I replied, "She didnt. Why?" Minah: DIDNT? GOSH.. This blouse u are wearing too revealing.. Buat malukan IFD dept ajer.." Not only that. She even get a few "supporters" and those "supporters" agreed with her! Perhaps, those "supporters" do not know what is fashion or what is style. I can forgive them coz they actually did not say anything abt my dressing AFTER THIS FCUKING MINAH told them abt it, then they maybe have no choice but to agree! So when those people already agreed with her, I can't shout at her, "U better look at urself in the mirror, u fat swine!" hahahaha... When I related that to Kak Olin and a few colleagues, all of them are on my side. All of them said, "hello.. looks who's talking... she says ur blouse is revealing?! first thing first, does she know WHAT IS REVEALING? next time tell her this, "'even if it is revealing, i am not like u who always wear the same thing every week."' Yes, she does. I think she only has 7 or 8 pieces of clothing in her wardrobe that explains why she always wears the same thing. Unlike me who was a goody-two-shoes, very plain looking at least is way much better than that minah. Before I know what is style, I have lots of clothings in my wardrobe. Now that I know a bit of what is style, the number clothings in my wardrobe remains the same. Why? I discard those that is so orbit and replace with stylish, stunning ones. *winks* I know one reason why that FATTY MINAH bitch abt my dressing. She can't accept the fact that I who was once a goody-two-shoes, average-looking, gal-next-door who was modestly dressed is now much more appealing, presentable and prettier than her (I am all along prettier than her, she's a FATTY MINAH TAKDER STYLE, how can she be prettier than me, pls la!) So, what my grandmother told me before was right. Now I understand why she sometimes nag whenever I bought new clothes (not because the clothes are expensive), she is afraid people (especially malays) will get jealous. It has happen! My grandmother told me that if I were to work in an environment with lots of malay colleagues, I have to be just plainly dress, dun over dress and if possible, wear the same thing over and over again so that the malay colleagues won't be jealous. My grandmother told me that "malays tends to get jealous of other people's dressing." Now I get it. Oh well, as long as I feel comfortable wearing that blouse and it is not revealing enuff and my grandmother did not say anything, I will still be wearing it! The more she said it is revealing, the more I am going to wear it. If she were to comment again, perhaps I can tell her this, "Well, it does not matter if it is revealing as long as I don't dress like a typical malay minahs. Their dressing sense makes me wanna puke!" Haha. Of coz I will say that in a nice way. Dia sindir aku, aku sindir dia balik. That minah has not seen how my younger sister dress up. If she did, she will faint coz my younger sister dress up better than me, my younger sister is like the younger version of Kak Olin. *winks*
I started work in 2004 and I do not have problems with people / colleagues envious of my dressing. Well, in 2004 I worked in APS PDA Services and I was the only staff. 1 staff and 1 boss.. In 2005 I worked with KCAP and I was the only malay staff. In 2006 to 2007 I worked with D & B and there were a few malay staffs but I don't have problems with them coz most of them are older than me so they don't care.
Now I am working with ECSF since 17 December 2007. I have been dressing modestly and appropriately - u know my grandmother will scream if she saw me inappropriately dress. If she thinks my dressing is too sexy enuff, I am not allowed to leave the house. That explains why my wardrobe is full of long sleeves blouses, dress. Heeh.
Since January 2009, I have been learning how to improve myself - in dressing. So I learn bit by bit, one step at a time and I myself see the change in me. However, someone (a few rather), not pleased with the change. Like I have mentioned earlier, my grandmother will not allow me out of the house ; change to something more appropriate and modest. So I guess the blouse I wore on that day is ok. But wanna know what?
Monday, June 08, 2009
Fed up la when my own friends pressurized me with this question, "U have a Marketing degree, u can easily find another better job with higher pay."
Look, do they think its damn easy to find? Economy still not doing well... I can't just resign and quickly look for one. I know I can actively looking for one while I am still working at current company but I don't want. It is not the time yet.
Though I have marketing degree, I lack the communication skills; thats why I am not firm and pple can bully me and 'pijak kepala' and some even thinks I am a stupid grad.. I am not stupid.. its just that I don't have the confidence.
I will try ask for a transfer. There is a Marketing dept in my company. No harm trying so I will try. I have marketing degree but I am not given a chance to embark on marketing area, if they allow me to transfer, that could be a minor to start off with. But I won't ask for a transfer now. I will after July or August. Let's cross fingers and see how...
Why is it July or August? Well, I will be attending a 5 day course (cost $65 - after subsidy) at Employment and Employability Institute (e2i) located at Redhill. The course is known as Certified Service Professional (CSP). 5 day course from 17 June to 23 June (excluding weekends).
Reason I took up the course.
Perhaps, the reason why I can't clinch a marketing job is due to my communication skills. I am not a good communicator. When comes to writing, I'm good but I have no confident to talk to someone who is of a higher post than me. FYI, I have no idea that the CSP course existed. Last November, I accompanied A to a job seminar organized by e2i and Marina Bay Sands, and of course I must make myself look as if I am attending the seminar too so I filled up my details and everything. A would like to get the bellman job for a start. As for me, I was only accompanying him because he can't seem to be independent; well A's sister told me he's a late bloomer so I have to be patient with him.
So I have to fill up the "Position Applied For" details as a front office agent post for Marina Bay Sands. I also undergo the interview. During the interview, I was informed that I am able to get the job but I have no pre-requisite skills such as, customer service, retailing and the way I deliver my communication to them.
I know I failed the latter. However, I was told that if I am really interested to be in the service-oriented industry, I will have to sacrifice my time and go for course. It took me a while to decide. After months of contemplating, I have decided to attend the stated course.
InsyaAllah, if God Wills it, I am able to get a marketing job after I have learnt the effective communication skills from the course.
That's why I mentioned that I will try to bring up to the management either in July or August. Who knows, with the extra certificate and my effective communication skills, they allow me to transfer and start of with a junior position in marketing (of coz I dun mind at all).
Let's just hope for the best. Amin.
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Both part time jobs NO LONGER needs me.
For Sunday's cafe job, I understand that it is a change of ownership - change boss so definitely the new boss does not want me coz the new boss does not know me and may not need me. My last day was last week - 24 May because tomorrow, 31 May, the makcik wants to do some spring cleaning before the new owner takes over w.e.f 1 June.
So, I thought the Saturday's belly dancing job can tide me over. It has been my standard procedure to call at the belly dancing shop on either Thursday or Friday to ask for the time for me to report to work. When I called, the boss told me that they no longer need me - for the time being - because business is really... really slow...
I felt that it was unfair. The Saturday job has not have the change of ownership yet but then they do not need me - for the time being - due to bad business. Sighz.
Looks like I have to 'rot' at home in the weekends starting today. I will look for part time jobs again but not now, as I do need a rest too - that's what most of my friends and even my dear grandma says. Perhaps, I will take a rest and should the need to have another job arises, I will hunt for another part time job, preferably in a retail supermarket or fast food outlets because those are the places which ALWAYS in A NEED of SERVICE STAFF. As for my finances, from now on, I will jot down on a piece of paper my expenditures and make sure I'll have sufficient funds for bills, transport and lunch, else I will either have to starve or beg for food or $$ which is so pathetically pitiful..
Sunday, May 24, 2009
so what if the Desaru trip was cancelled? I will be going to Pulau Perhentian Terrengganu in end July / early August.... =D
I will be going with a few colleagues... =D This is what my grandma says, "Kalau Kak Olin tak pergi, kau jgn pergi.. takder org nak jaga kau.." Hahahaha... Who says Kak olin won't be going?! She loves Perhentian... Definitely she's going!
Monday, May 11, 2009
My part time jobs may soon be over. For both days. Reason: both jobs are of the same reason.
Saturday - The owner of the shop who is also a belly dance teacher revealed to me last week that she has called her property agent to help her sell away her shop. She wants to move on and do other things.. She told me that it is tiring to be owner of a shop. Here's the catch: When the new owner takes over, I can't be a part timer there anymore because the new owner does not know me and does not hire me. I was hired by her, not the new owner so I can't work as a part timer at the belly dance shop anymore once the new owner takes over. I don't know when that will happen.
I thought if the change of ownership takes place, I can rely on the Sunday part time job. Wil try to negotiate with the makcik to allow me work on Saturdays and Sundays instead of only Sundays.. However. . . .
Sunday - 31 May may be my last day for my Sunday job. I just found out that the makcik will no longer be the owner of the cafe as of 31 May! Why wasn't I informed? At least I was informed for Saturday's job. Oh dear!
Looks like I may go for job hunting for part time again after the changeover of owners. Since 31 May is my last day working in cafe, I may ask the belly dance shop owner if she wants me on Sundays.. If she agrees, it may lighten down my financial burden for a while. After a new owner takes over the belly dancing shop, then I am off wandering and hunting again for part time jobs.
What luck! I got 2 part time jobs and both will be changing ownership soon.. Sighz..
Wednesday, May 06, 2009
Desaru trip
is called off
Bleargh!
Friday, April 24, 2009
Further to my entry of 20 April 2009, here’s the continuation… Its in a mixture of English and malay coz the title for this entry is MINAH. MINAH is a malay word and I can’t stand MINAHs or anyone who acted like a MINAH. wHy?
For small trivial matters, will make a big fuss abt it and furthermore, make sure the fuss is heard by almost everyone! DUHZ! I dun like being in a scene!
Incident 1:
Tin Susu
Everyone who has been constantly reading this blog will know that I am clueless when it comes to housework HOWEVER at least I know how to open a can using the can-opener la..
Let me ask u… If the can is upside down, and wanna open the can with the can-opener, is it possible? OF COURSE IT IS! It is MILK in the can! So whether it is upside down or not, when u have open it, it is still milk! I'm sure u all know that even if the tin susu is upside down, it is still susu inside! Not cheese or whatever!!
STUPID RIGHT! THINK SHE IS SMART TO MARAH-MARAH ORG.. SHE IS OLDER THAN ME AND YET SO CHILDISH! AKU FIKIR AKU YG BELUM MATURE, ADA JUGAK MANUSIA YG UMUR LEBIH TUA DARIKU YG BELUM MATURE?!! Well, thats not what I call immature, I guess... THAT’S what I call MINAH.. WHY SHE IS A MINAH? MINAHS KNOW THEY ARE STILL CHILDISH SO THEY COVER THEMSELVES AND TRY TO ACT AS IF THEY’RE SMARTS BUT THEY DIDN'T REALIZE THAT THEY'RE NOT..
So when this minah finds out abt it, she wants to know more abt what had happen. This minah here thinks that her English is superb! Bleargh! Try la talk to A’s sister! I’m sure this minah cannot take it! A’s sister speaks English as if she’s a Caucasian but she is not. This minah here speaks English because she wants to be like a mat salleh tapi tak jadi.. Hahaha.. Anyway, here goes…
“MBS, what did u do to the can opener?" Being very honest.. I relate what happen..
U know what she said, "WHO TOLD U TO BE SO SMART, OPEN UPSIDE DOWN? TAU BUKAK OR TAK TAU BUKAK?"
I know I am not good in housekeeping but I am being appreciative enuff to try to open the can opener myself.. In fact, da banyak tin susu I bukak cuma on that particular day its UPSIDE DOWN…
So this is my reply, "DUN ASSUME I AM CLUELESS IN HOUSEWORK.. I KNOW HOW TO OPEN JUST THAT FOR TODAY ITS UPSIDE DOWN"
Dia tak puas hati.. she continues, "do u know what u are doing upsets Mummy Letchmi (she’s in charge of housekeeping ; pantry cleanliness and office cleanliness)?"
"OK, I will apologize later but now I wanna know WHAT HAS THAT GOT TO DO WITH U? WILL IT AFFECT YOUR WORK? WILL IT ALSO AFFECT MY WORK?"
Pasal tin susu pun nak bising bising.. At first, after this incident, I never thought that this is how a typical minah would behave. But after observing more, I’ll finally realize..
Incident 2:
HANDPHONE NOKIA CHARGER
For quite a number of occasions, I have been charging my handphone at JKC's workstation. U see, I don't have extra plug at my workstation, there is extra at JKC's. Initially I brought my own charger and went to his workstation, which is just on my left opposite side of me. When I went to his workstation and SL (sign language to him - because he is a hearing-impaired) to him that I want to charge my hp. He said sure and there is already a charger at his workstation. He charged the handphone for me.
I did ask him, whose charger that belongs to. He did not know. Fine. So, for a few times, I have been going to his workstation and charged my handphone there UNTIL...
Until one fateful day, the same minah happen to notice that JKC handed me over my handphone after charging and guess what?
BUKAN MAIN MENGAMUK DIER!!!
MINAH: Pandai-pandai ehk pakai org nyer charger.. kena bayar tau!"
Me: JKC's has the plug and there's a charger.
The next comment from the MINAH makes me wanna shout at her but like I'd mentioned I dun like to be in a scene. I, a degree graduate do not SHOW OFF my English. My English are all very simple.
MINAH: Hey, u dun understand simple English? It's my charger.
Me: Of course I understand English. Everyone here knows English. What I mean is, when I asked JKC whose charger was it, he didnt mention who. All he mention is, there is a charger at his place so its not my fault.
Well, this minah expects me to diam after her comment on the 'simple english', she didnt expect me to talk back so her next comment..
MINAH: Woah.. da pandai menjawab. Da pakai orgnyer property, tak nak say sorry ..."
Me: I told u its not my fault, so why must I say sorry.. Go and ask JKC why he didnt tell me u are the owner of the charger, and next time please write ur name on the charger la.
Silence.
I know pretty well the reason why she tried to find fault with me. Well, I observed that many other colleagues went to JKC's workstation and used the charger and she was there and she diam ajer, but when she saw me using her charger, she makes noise..
Simple explanation in malay: Bangsa lain and pangkat besar dia suka bodek tapi org dia (org melayu Islam) sendiri dia buat bodoh. Understand what I mean?
Never mind if u dun. Ok, now the reason why she try to find fault with me is because I am close with someone she really dislikes.. She is jealous of this person. Well, this person is older than her and yet can be so stylish and though she's married, still can maintain the figure whereas the minah over here, badan is an enormous size and all of us were shocked that she's married? Haha. So I guess perhaps could be she is jealous of this person so she dislikes whoever is close with the person.. And I am close with this person and it happens that I am same dept with her, so AKU LA YG KENA!!
I did complain to the person abt this minah. U see, this minah used to be in same dept as the person and due to her bad work performance, she was transferred to my dept so now I suffer. I always said this to the person, "Kak, asal they all tak nak buang kan ajer dia tu.. why transfer her? Nak transfer pun, other dept la.. Why my dept.. Sakit hati tau dgn dier.. Ader ajer dia nyer comment!"
Now that's what I call a Minah. Can't find fault with the person they dislike, they will find other targets. I know. I have noticed ever since she has been transferred.. She is not happy with me coz I hanged around with this someone. If I were to say that this someone is someone who is very stylish and all artistes know her, I'm sure u all know the reason why a few Minahs dislike her. As u know, Minahs.. whatever they wear are not stylish or fashionable but they tried to be one.
So when this someone befriended me instead of them, of coz la they not happy and always target at me.. Don't u find it so childish? If they dun like the person, FINE.. but why must they also dislike whoever who are friends with the person they dun like? Say if they dun like S and I am friends with S, they won't like me as well.. For what sia? Why they bother? I have my own choice of who and whom I want to make friends with. I make friends with those who never make such a big fuss over small matters, who are more mature than me so that I can learn, who likes to advise me on just anything and treat everyone fairly.
Sighz.. If this minah continues to find fault with me or whatever, I think I'm going to ask for transfer. She was from Renewals transfered to my dept. So, if she continues or talked across to another colleague some childish topic until I was disrupted, (I did tell her in a gentle manner to lower down volume but she is the type who tak amik perduli org melayu walaupun org melayu tu pangkat tinggi UNLESS I am CINA and high post, she will say, "abih kau bbl dgn bf kau, boleh? Aku bbl dgn org belakang kau, tak leh?" So can forget it la!) I will ask for transfer BUT NOT to Renewals.. I have my degree.. I must make use of it.. Hence I may want to ask to transfer me to Marketing dept, which I know not easy coz NO MALAYS in that dept.. I'll try my luck..
P/S: Betul lah kata my nenek, kalau ader melayu kat tempat kerja, jaga diri.. kekadang tu percakapan diorang kasar.. kekadang tu kalau dia nampak kau berpakaian baru, dia cemburu etc etc.. Which is true! Thats why they dislike the person. *eyes rolling*
MINAHS!! BLEAGH